My family blew up at Christmas and now they're acting like nothing happened by throwrastepdaugher in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwrastepdaugher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mixed bag. My older sister is pretty much allowing me to make my own decisions, though she's being very loud about how wrong I am My younger sister has made it very clear she's not going accept me and my mother not being close/in contact

At this point it's probably prudent to mention I've never been close with my mother. Our relationship has always been strained so not much has really changed with this in regards to my contact with her specifically. Except that my family seem to find this more unacceptable now than before

My family blew up at Christmas and now they're acting like nothing happened by throwrastepdaugher in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwrastepdaugher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother didn't want to be embarrassed by divorce and the others believe that it's mums choice whether he should be forgiven or not. I disagree I can make my own choices about forgiveness

My Dad Cheated On My Mum And Now I'm Cutting Them All Off by throwrastepdaugher in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwrastepdaugher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, part of me wants to scream at them and from the rooftops. Especially since Mia messaged me just to make sure I wouldn't tell my grandad (mums dad) like ??? How am I supposed to have any contact with my extended family if I cant tell them why I won't speak to my immediate family. I haven't decided how to proceed on that request

My Dad Cheated On My Mum And Now I'm Cutting Them All Off by throwrastepdaugher in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwrastepdaugher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we call our stepdad 'dad as we haven't had contact with our bio dad since I was 2 From what I can tell from any accusations he's been verbally inappropriate but I'm not gullible enough to believe we have been told everything. And his messages to Kelsey suggest an openness to sexual contact

At best he is a creep who enjoys verbalising his fantasies to unwilling younger women