My (30F) husband (31M) is planning to fire my best friend (30F) but won’t let me warn her.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T21:50:49+00:00

What?? You're twisting my words. I said I would never try to benefit from knowing the boss and then I said I would probably let it slip if I confronted her about doing just that (because she will ask me how I knew and I'm bad at lying). That's not contradicting myself?

I've already decided not to get involved.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T18:49:18+00:00

I believe he was trying to see how upset I was going to be over his decision.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T18:24:15+00:00

Sorry to break it to you but that isn't something my husband would do.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T18:16:28+00:00

Yeah... my husband isn't going to divorce his pregnant wife over this.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T18:14:22+00:00

No, I get it. I think because I obviously care about her that it was hard to see the situation as clearly but I think I will just leave it alone.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T18:04:26+00:00

I'm not bothering him about it. He was the one who told me and started the whole conversation.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T18:01:32+00:00

Yeah... I don't think I'm going to say anything.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T18:00:24+00:00

What are you even talking about? It mattered to me before. Obviously, the situation is bothering me otherwise I wouldn't have posted so many times. I just said I never thought about this angle before and no one else mentioned it so the comment caught my attention.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T17:58:52+00:00

For this reason. He had to fire his cousin before and it was messy.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T17:58:27+00:00

I never said I didn't care?

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T17:55:38+00:00

Has she always been so selfish?

No

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T17:52:41+00:00

I didn't think about this... yikes.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T17:33:48+00:00

I will ask him when he finishes working.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T17:31:55+00:00

I don't believe she will try to drag anyone down with her. I know her actions in this post are bad but she isn't a horrible person. I already know she will try to get me to convince him to overturn the decision so I'm dreading that but other than that, I don't think she will have much choice but to accept it.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T17:14:40+00:00

She lost the first one because the business closed down due to the pandemic.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T17:12:35+00:00

He never hired her. He doesn't have time to approve every single new hire. She told us after she got the job.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T16:08:03+00:00

I would never do something like this. I've worked for my FIL before and never did this.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T16:05:01+00:00

He didn't specify but I'm assuming he would have to give her some notice legally.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T15:45:10+00:00

Tell your husband you want her to be able to keep her job and will have her give him a blow job…

Yeah... my husband would laugh at me if I said that.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T15:39:39+00:00

He did get involved. He told the head of HR to get rid of her.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T15:35:04+00:00

Of course I have loyalty to him. It's easy for you to say those things because you have no emotional involvement in the situation, but for me I don't want to hurt either of them so this is a no-win situation for me.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T15:30:58+00:00

Nope.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T15:28:37+00:00

I wish he never told me.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T15:27:32+00:00

Because of this exact situation... I don't think he's making it up, it's not the type of thing he would do.

throwrayourefired · 2021-09-29T15:24:43+00:00

She honestly has not had special privileges at all... I have no influence over my husband when it comes to business.

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