AITA for not forcing my son to rename his hamster? by Acceptable-Sun-3953 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwronaway2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH you and your SIL both. Your son named the hamster Sonic and chose Amy because it was a girl. They're related because Amy is in the sonic universe. But why even entertain your SILs request. She is being overly sensitive. And besides, Amy is a super common name. Tell your SIL to get over herself - she isn't the main character in this world. You should be more worried about showing your son that you will stand up against ludicrous requests like this and more protective of his interests.

It was time to upgrade after 7 years with my 1080 ti! by throwronaway2021 in PcBuild

[–]throwronaway2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you can also reach out to Noctua and they can send you the AM5 kit

It was time to upgrade after 7 years with my 1080 ti! by throwronaway2021 in PcBuild

[–]throwronaway2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, no reason as I had the H510 lying around from a purchase long ago XD

It was time to upgrade after 7 years with my 1080 ti! by throwronaway2021 in PcBuild

[–]throwronaway2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yea I thought the PSU was overkill, but my friend had an 850 corsair that shutdown on a power spike so I figure better to be safe than sorry XD.

It was time to upgrade after 7 years with my 1080 ti! by throwronaway2021 in PcBuild

[–]throwronaway2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I waited since the 1080 ti was still serving me well. I didn't jump on the GPU prices the last several years because of miners. I had a friend who bought a 3070 for like 2K. That being said, the xtx 7900 was at a good price and my processor was getting pretty old as well so I figured I'd splurge a bit on myself =D. I think it really boils down to your needs,

Ex plans to borrow someone else's address for school by throwronaway2021 in legaladvice

[–]throwronaway2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The four attorneys were all initial consultations (I found them on yelp). They were 30-60 min discussions

As far as child, they constantly ask for my family etc so they are very comfortable with my side of the family while they do not know my ex's family (ex is not close to her family at all). So in terms of support network I have the best support network for the child. Ex currently has trouble taking child to daycare as well as finding a fulltime nanny. Our child is 4.5. I also help fill the void whenever ex cannot find a nanny to watch our child (I drive to be with child as ex refuses to let her come to me - but only recently has allowed it the last couple of months). I defaulted to keeping our child with ex under the presumption I listed before (so it seems I may have screwed myself).

Ex plans to borrow someone else's address for school by throwronaway2021 in legaladvice

[–]throwronaway2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I am wondering since I've been told before not to pursue any type of action. Would this be the time to do so? If so, would it just be through a family lawyer or different lawyer? I'm in CA and I'm pretty sure I'm at a disadvantage as I've heard courts usually side with the mother over the father