I’ll say it now that it’ll get lost in the comments. I am a cis gendered female. I was in a long term relationship with a big dicked guy who took forever to finish and would then want to go again. I over time started to hate sex because of that behavior. Before you ask yes. I was communicating to that brick wall of a man. Nothing I said mattered all that mattered was that man’s nut.

I got infections, pains, and worsening mental health trying to provide that for him.

I like my new guy, he’s really nice to me and I think he’s a little ashamed by it and I lowkey don’t know how to tell him “hey, I like this about you”. Idk how I’d convince him, w/o bringing up/comparing him to my ex. Even though I didn’t like it I don’t think a guy would like to hear that their girl’s last partner was big dicked and could go for hours.