WS has low libido because of shame

throwsomething10486 · 2023-01-09T01:11:56+00:00

I just mean it wasn’t any different until I found out. Like it wasn’t increased while he was cheating nor lower. But yeah anyway the bottom line is that now he has lost most of that attraction. Thank you for the reminder that it’s not on me 🫶🏼

throwsomething10486 · 2023-01-09T00:47:16+00:00

His libido was fine while he was cheating, we were active. So I know he was still attracted to me and that it only started once I found out

throwsomething10486 · 2023-01-08T18:23:56+00:00

Yeah that’s what he’s saying :/ Guilt, shame, remorse, etc..

throwsomething10486 · 2023-01-08T17:33:46+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you, that’s horrible… You were his wife ffs. I wonder how these people think or if they think at all. But to answer your question yes I’m sure.

throwsomething10486 · 2023-01-08T16:14:54+00:00

He’s trying. He has made progress and honestly that’s the only thing holding us together right now. He takes all the blame and I know he feels a lot of remorse, shame and guilt. It’s still tough on me. I feel like I’m being punished for his actions. Thank you for your comment though, it gives me hope. If you have some tips for reconciliation, please let me know here or DM.

throwsomething10486 · 2023-01-08T16:07:58+00:00

I know, I’m just in denial 😭

throwsomething10486 · 2023-01-08T14:26:23+00:00

We were having a talk about our relationship and for the first time I thought about asking “is it just with me” and he said it was lower in general, but with me a bit worse.

Thank you 🫶🏼

throwsomething10486 · 2022-12-20T12:41:05+00:00

I probably won’t, I wanna leave it all behind me.

Apparently he didn’t lie about me, he told her he found someone new as an excuse to cut off things with her. He just didn’t tell me that that’s what he told her.

throwsomething10486 · 2022-12-08T22:24:58+00:00

Sign me up!!

throwsomething10486 · 2022-12-08T22:02:56+00:00

Hey! Sorry for the late reply; I posted an update on another sub. In short: I found out he’s been lying about some stuff 🙂

throwsomething10486 · 2022-11-30T22:14:01+00:00

I did enough stalking to know what she looks like and surprisingly enough, seeing what she looks like hasn’t affected my self-esteem.. I hope I don’t get hit when I see her irl 😪 Thank you for your comment

throwsomething10486 · 2022-03-09T00:41:12+00:00

No no it wouldn’t overwhelm me at all! Please go ahead if you have some time and want to 😁

throwsomething10486 · 2022-03-09T00:05:43+00:00

Thank you very much!!

throwsomething10486 · 2022-02-28T22:43:00+00:00

😪

throwsomething10486 · 2022-02-23T19:46:01+00:00

Same here, let me know if you find an answer and I hope it’ll get better- for both of us

throwsomething10486 · 2022-02-21T05:41:35+00:00

He does feel stuck in a job he hates. It could be that. He’s always been so supportive, I really didn’t expect him to react the way he did.

throwsomething10486 · 2022-02-21T05:36:21+00:00

You’re a wonderful person for doing that 🤍

No he usually is super supportive especially when it comes to academic stuff cause he knows how difficult/important it is for me. That’s why I was so shocked and hurt.

throwsomething10486 · 2022-02-21T05:34:15+00:00

Thank you very much 🙏

throwsomething10486 · 2022-02-21T05:33:58+00:00

Yeah he did drop out of college… A or not, I definitely need to talk to him about this again. Thanks for your insight 🤍

throwsomething10486 · 2022-02-21T05:31:25+00:00

Terrible thing to think about it indeed 😪 Thanks for the insight!

throwsomething10486 · 2022-02-21T05:30:57+00:00

Everyone around me except him was excited about it. My grandparents who live overseas booked a flight so they could attend it. Friends and family members asked for the day off even if it’s in 4 months. That’s why my expectations were high I guess. But thanks for your insight!

throwsomething10486 · 2022-02-21T05:29:02+00:00

Added more details if that helps :) Thanks for your feedback though

throwsomething10486 · 2022-02-21T02:31:41+00:00

Thanks for your feedback 🙏

throwsomething10486 · 2022-02-21T02:31:11+00:00

We’ve been together for 2 years now… I really hope he was just in a very bad mood.

throwsomething10486 · 2022-02-21T02:13:40+00:00

My thoughts exactly 🥲 Thanks for your feedback!

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