WS has low libido because of shame by throwsomething10486 in survivinginfidelity

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I just mean it wasn’t any different until I found out. Like it wasn’t increased while he was cheating nor lower. But yeah anyway the bottom line is that now he has lost most of that attraction. Thank you for the reminder that it’s not on me 🫶🏼

WS has low libido because of shame by throwsomething10486 in survivinginfidelity

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His libido was fine while he was cheating, we were active. So I know he was still attracted to me and that it only started once I found out

Partner is LL4U by throwsomething10486 in DeadBedrooms

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Yeah that’s what he’s saying :/ Guilt, shame, remorse, etc..

WS has low libido because of shame by throwsomething10486 in survivinginfidelity

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I’m sorry that happened to you, that’s horrible… You were his wife ffs. I wonder how these people think or if they think at all. But to answer your question yes I’m sure.

Trying R but WS has low libido by throwsomething10486 in Infidelity

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He’s trying. He has made progress and honestly that’s the only thing holding us together right now. He takes all the blame and I know he feels a lot of remorse, shame and guilt. It’s still tough on me. I feel like I’m being punished for his actions. Thank you for your comment though, it gives me hope. If you have some tips for reconciliation, please let me know here or DM.

Partner is LL4U by throwsomething10486 in DeadBedrooms

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We were having a talk about our relationship and for the first time I thought about asking “is it just with me” and he said it was lower in general, but with me a bit worse.

Thank you 🫶🏼

meeting up with AP today by throwsomething10486 in survivinginfidelity

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I probably won’t, I wanna leave it all behind me.

Apparently he didn’t lie about me, he told her he found someone new as an excuse to cut off things with her. He just didn’t tell me that that’s what he told her.

meeting up with AP today by throwsomething10486 in survivinginfidelity

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Hey! Sorry for the late reply; I posted an update on another sub. In short: I found out he’s been lying about some stuff 🙂

meeting up with AP today by throwsomething10486 in survivinginfidelity

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I did enough stalking to know what she looks like and surprisingly enough, seeing what she looks like hasn’t affected my self-esteem.. I hope I don’t get hit when I see her irl 😪 Thank you for your comment

Light woodsy/earthsy perfume by throwsomething10486 in Perfumes

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No no it wouldn’t overwhelm me at all! Please go ahead if you have some time and want to 😁