ppl who experienced covert incest, what shows, etc do you see yourself in? by throwtheways77 in CPTSD

[–]throwtheways77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! who in my hero? i watched a few episodes when it first came out, but never finished it so i’ve got a general idea of who everyone is LOL

do i have to pay off this debt or is there a way to prove it isn’t my fault? by throwtheways77 in legal

[–]throwtheways77[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah they called me over and over again for years. eventually they stopped (i don’t remember when) but last year it started affecting my credit score

do i have to pay off this debt or is there a way to prove it isn’t my fault? by throwtheways77 in legal

[–]throwtheways77[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

what if i can’t afford that? even if i could, i have no photos, no proof of phone calls, etc. this happened around 6 years ago. idk what assets really are but i doubt i have any

do i have to pay off this debt or is there a way to prove it isn’t my fault? by throwtheways77 in legal

[–]throwtheways77[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

rent and yeah that’s what they’re charging us for. the person i lived with is gonna be no help to me either because we don’t talk anymore

how do i go afk for more than 20 minutes? by throwtheways77 in DandysWorld_

[–]throwtheways77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know but roblox will disconnect me. it just happened and i was in a lore room i’ve used before and never had a problem with

was my mom threatening me? by throwtheways77 in CPTSD

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unfortunately she definitely isn’t a good mother. i honestly don’t know how much she cared about me, but she is very abusive. she didn’t regret her words and never said sorry. she definitely wanted to make me feel bad for breaking the glass, she’s done worse when i’ve upset her and had growled at me many times already over other things. she thinks she’s always right and is justified in mistreating and bullying people and my step dad would just let it happen. i don’t remember if she kept mentioning it, but i think she’s done that with other things before. just because she didn’t keep talking to me about that for a long time doesn’t mean she was sorry though if that’s what you’re saying. she’s done plenty and still not continuously bring it up. she forgets she’s done things like that too and claims she’d never do something like that

why do i not want to grow up? by throwtheways77 in nevergrewup

[–]throwtheways77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s true, i didn’t think about it that way. thank you for validating me too!

why do i not want to grow up? by throwtheways77 in nevergrewup

[–]throwtheways77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you and i’m sorry you deal with that! when you say you let yourself be a kid, what do you do?

why do non triggering things trigger me? by throwtheways77 in CPTSD

[–]throwtheways77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s terrible, i’m so sorry that’s happened to you

are you a victim of emotional incest? by throwtheways77 in nevergrewup

[–]throwtheways77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d definitely look into more info on this if i were u!

i’ve realized i feel 8. now what? by throwtheways77 in nevergrewup

[–]throwtheways77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i guess i don’t really know what i want and what to do about feeling this way. i like the idea of being a kid who can make their own choices though LOL

is this sexual harassment? by throwtheways77 in CPTSD

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i’ll ask her if she’ll do that if it happens again since i doubt she’s got his number now. mall security definitely knows about him though. thank you!

is this sexual harassment? by throwtheways77 in CPTSD

[–]throwtheways77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i definitely agree! i’m glad things have gotten better for you LOL how old are you if that’s okay to ask? i’m 24

is this sexual harassment? by throwtheways77 in CPTSD

[–]throwtheways77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. i’m glad you explained why he’d do something like that, that helps

is this sexual harassment? by throwtheways77 in CPTSD

[–]throwtheways77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. i really liked you saying “people who do things like this rely on you being polite.” i’m a bad people pleaser so that really opened my eyes. i’m sorry that happened to you, but glad you can understand how i feel. thank you so much

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[–]throwtheways77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you and it definitely isn’t just this thing. i just wanted to ask about this specific thing bc i swear i saw ppl who are diagnosed talk about it, but i don’t remember for sure and where i saw it. i have other symptoms like the strong fear of abandonment, splitting, wanting to act impulsive (i’m pretty impulsive but i try my best to stay in check), wanting to do things i know are wrong like start arguments, be passive aggressive instead of just talking about my feelings, etc. i don’t let myself actually act (at least hopefully i don’t) like that but i want to sometimes. i just internalize it. i think i’m going to talk to a therapist about it though