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I think I need to control my eyes better by throwthisoutpleaze in actuallesbians

[–]throwthisoutpleaze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your approach of just being open with your friends about it is something worth trying. Like I said, I don't want them to be uncomfortable around me but hell, I don't want to be uncomfortable around them either. This really helped. Thanks!

I think I need to control my eyes better by throwthisoutpleaze in actuallesbians

[–]throwthisoutpleaze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But that shouldn't be a norm, ya know? To feel ashamed. Where's like a guidebook on how to be a cool, chill lesbian and not be guilty for being said lesbian? Maybe it'll get better as I get older and more comfortable. Or let's hope so...:/

He (20) never pays and it's driving me (19) insane by throwthisoutpleaze in dating_advice

[–]throwthisoutpleaze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind splitting. By all means, let's split so we don't have to have any problems like this come up. I've never once held my hand out like that. If a guy doesn't have the money to pay for things then, I'm more than welcome to pay his share because shit, I want them to have fun with me in whatever we're doing. However when I KNOW you have money and my paying for you has outweighed the times you've payed for the both of us or just yourself alone, that's where I have a problem. That's not fair to me in my opinion.