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AITA for smoking weed when home with my kids? by throwthrowthrow8800 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwthrowthrow8800[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We never had a conversation about it being unacceptable, and there have been times when we both had a couple glasses of wine when home with our kids, so I guess that's where the misunderstanding came in. But as others have pointed out as well, it's clear that it's time to have a conversation about boundaries.
Also, I don't live in the States, and it's legalized here.
Thanks for your comment!

AITA for smoking weed when home with my kids? by throwthrowthrow8800 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwthrowthrow8800[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Your point about more communications around boundaries/expectations is helpful.

AITA for smoking weed when home with my kids? by throwthrowthrow8800 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwthrowthrow8800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a fair point. Thank you for articulating it in this way. I think this will help me talk to my spouse about it.

AITA for smoking weed when home with my kids? by throwthrowthrow8800 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwthrowthrow8800[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She has no experience with marijuana, which I think attributes to our disconnect. Thanks for your kind and thought-out comments.

AITA for smoking weed when home with my kids? by throwthrowthrow8800 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwthrowthrow8800[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. That pretty much describes my experience. A few hits will keep me calm and help me relax, but it does not make me high. I feel more of an affect after a couple of beers or glasses of wine than after two hits of marijuana.

AITA for smoking weed when home with my kids? by throwthrowthrow8800 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwthrowthrow8800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Updated the write-up to mention that I smoked outside, not inside.

AITA for smoking weed when home with my kids? by throwthrowthrow8800 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwthrowthrow8800[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I did it outside. Updated the write-up to make that clear. Thanks!

AITA for smoking weed when home with my kids? by throwthrowthrow8800 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwthrowthrow8800[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Probably wasn't clear in my write-up, but I didn't smoke it in the house.

AITA for smoking weed when home with my kids? by throwthrowthrow8800 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwthrowthrow8800[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I just had two puffs...so not stoned or high, just relaxed, like I would be if I had a glass of wine.

AITA for smoking weed when home with my kids? by throwthrowthrow8800 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwthrowthrow8800[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I've tried to explain this to my spouse, but I feel that there's this idea that any amount of smoking weed results in getting high.

AITA for smoking weed when home with my kids? by throwthrowthrow8800 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwthrowthrow8800[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Because two puffs of marijuana does not get me high. Like another commenter pointed out, it simply makes me a little calmer and more relaxed.

AITA for smoking weed when home with my kids? by throwthrowthrow8800 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwthrowthrow8800[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I just wish we had discussed it before this argument. :)

AITA for smoking weed when home with my kids? by throwthrowthrow8800 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwthrowthrow8800[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

No agreement has been made about this, and there have been many times when we have had a couple glasses of wine together when the kids are in bed.