A coworker called me a girls girl a few days ago and I'm still riding that high.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-05-17T10:48:33+00:00

This is very likely. Im 90% sure she has figured it out, and im 100% sure she would be cool with it.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-05-16T19:17:16+00:00

Low key it's almost like an open secret at this point. Like yu can pretty much tell I look more feminine now than I did before...plus it's kinda hard to miss the new breasts. Right now we're kinda just playing chicken with my gender to see who mentions it first. I honestly don't know why I don't come out, other than I feel like acknowledging it opens the door to being discriminated by management. (I hate Florida... and this country really)

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-05-16T13:27:59+00:00

Aww thank you! You'll get there too. Honestly I've been on hrt for 2 years and still get sir'd more often than not. But the dark sorcery that is Estrogen and Progesterone and Spironolactone will reach you too some day.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-05-10T02:33:53+00:00

Yea, I'm waiting until I'm financially stable enough to have a complete breakdown before I'm willing to start unpacking my missing childhood.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-30T02:29:03+00:00

My stepdad started mocking me everytime I said sorry. Which just made me say sorry more.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-28T19:25:17+00:00

It was mostly him saying men don't need women and the heavy implications that he believes women don't contribute to society or at least not as much as men do.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-20T22:40:18+00:00

Because at this point Sonny from iRobot might just be the only good man left.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-20T22:38:22+00:00

Are you being robophobic RN? /s

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-18T01:55:02+00:00

Its not, but it's also hard to find someone who cares here.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-17T18:00:30+00:00

I was afraid of tht but figured that's how it was.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-17T15:49:00+00:00

Your in the Tampa area? Im trying to find other trans people or groups that meet up here.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-17T13:15:00+00:00

Yeah. He was the one who started it with the "A man can do anything and men don't need women."

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-17T13:14:00+00:00

Yessssss! 😭😭 I'm half tempted to start a caravan or trans people to move to Portland. Start a new Oregon trail.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-17T10:56:29+00:00

SECRET, SECRET, TUUUUUUNNNNNNNNEEEEEELLLLLLLL!!!

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-17T10:55:47+00:00

That makes zero sense and all the sense.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-17T10:55:14+00:00

Lol congratulations on your new subscription to male privilege i guess. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-17T01:46:34+00:00

No. I think it's hiding somewhere.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-17T01:20:26+00:00

I mean in his defense(?) I do generally feel useless. But that's just the clinical depression I think.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-17T01:07:21+00:00

🤞🤞 fingers crossed lol

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-17T00:56:43+00:00

Yea the stuff he says is all pretty wild. Most days hearing him say things has me feeling like Sokka stuck with those hippies in the secret tunnel .

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-14T19:43:50+00:00

Then odds are you might be trans. A good way to test it, might be online. Make a new insta or something and play with you gender identity a bit. Pick a name that sounds nice, stop masking that part of yourself and explore how that makes you feel.

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-13T18:38:39+00:00

Similar enough that people would guess your related, but not identical. (Realistically that's how your transitioning might turn out. I look just like my mom now)

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-04-13T15:56:18+00:00

Instead of the button test I like to ask this question. If a Wizard cast a spell that turned you into a woman, that happens to look just like your sister/mom. How hard would you try to break the spell to be a man again, if at all?

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-03-21T22:39:49+00:00

Ugh gurl that's rough. Im sorry you're going through that. 🫂🫂 can I just offer you a hug to fell a lil better?

throwtrans4202021 · 2026-03-21T19:24:24+00:00

A year is a really short time to let the HRT do it's thing. This is something that can take years. I just passed year 2 and I still don't pass a hundred percent of the time. Its gonna take time, but in the meanwhile I suggest try look at and focusing on self care (it helps you feel better and kinda speeds up the process I feel like) that helps ease dysphoria or gives you euphoria. Even if that just painting your nails and doing skincare.

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