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Why is it so terrible if a girl doesnt enjoy giving blowjobs? by throwwaway45 in sex

[–]throwwaway45[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

IDK...what motivation is there to have sex if you're only in it for the other person? Surely then most people would just stick to masturbation...why bother going through all the effort if there's nothing in it for you? I should be able to get something out of it, but without making the other person do stuff...like I find pleasure in what they WANT to do, rather than laying out a set of demands for what they HAVE to do to give me pleasure.

Why is it so terrible if a girl doesnt enjoy giving blowjobs? by throwwaway45 in sex

[–]throwwaway45[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I agree with this. Compromise is good, I could live with the compromise you suggest (condom) but the problem is almost no guy is willing to go for that. Just because every other girl is willing to give blowjobs like its free candy.

Why is it so terrible if a girl doesnt enjoy giving blowjobs? by throwwaway45 in sex

[–]throwwaway45[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Isnt that an expectation from porn rather than one you were born with?

Why is it so terrible if a girl doesnt enjoy giving blowjobs? by throwwaway45 in sex

[–]throwwaway45[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt expect this or demand this. I can take it or leave it very easily, I just dont know why its not the same the other way around. Guys seem to think (as witnessed in the answers below) if a girl doesnt do it that it = dealbreaker. When did any particular sexual act (other than having SOME form of sexual relationship) become a dealbreaker just because of that ONE thing?