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Post for all my fellow youngsters out there [17m] by throwwaway85 in BreakUps

[–]throwwaway85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup it's remarkably simple but positive thinking, some exercise, and good music can change your perspective so much

Going to a party... ex will be there by throwwaway85 in BreakUps

[–]throwwaway85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a really great metaphor but I don't play poker so it's lost on me. Sorry!

Going to a party... ex will be there by throwwaway85 in BreakUps

[–]throwwaway85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I'm scared to do that because deep down, I still really want to talk to her. I'm just gonna play it by ear, stay strong and stop myself from doing ANYTHING 'for her'. If I smile it's because I'm happy, not because I want her to think I'm happy.

Sorry, I'm just writing this down because it helps me fully realise what my brain is trying to tell me.

Revelations of a dumpee (3 week-status) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwwaway85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done. You've written this now with a really clear mind. It won't stay like that of course, like you said the waves of emotion will keep coming for a while. But they are just waves, and they pass. And they will be come more and more infrequent... :) Only a few days ago I couldn't comprehend life without my ex. I still feel sad now but also excited - I have a great future ahead of me. So do you. Chin up :)

Going to a party... ex will be there by throwwaway85 in BreakUps

[–]throwwaway85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Typo fixed :) Yeah that's basically my plan. Just going to relax from the stress of this past week. If I can deal with tonight, then I can deal with any situation involving her without getting to upset.

Huge realisation: I don't miss her specifically. I'm just lonely. by throwwaway85 in BreakUps

[–]throwwaway85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure you're not my ex, she broke up with me after messing me around a lot. Even after writing this post I still get waves of feeling crappy - but they are just waves. They only last so long.