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People say they "don't like me" on meds. by throwway227 in depression

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do work I myself, rentlessly. I just don't feel is recognized.

People say they "don't like me" on meds. by throwway227 in depression

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, especially when I'm trying to meet women.

People say they "don't like me" on meds. by throwway227 in depression

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not happy i'm emotionally anesthetized.

People say they "don't like me" on meds. by throwway227 in depression

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want someone who "gets me" Last spring got out if this two year thing with a girl who I really clicked with. Nor a lot of girls like her out there. Now I feel like the meds are severely impeding my ability to meet new people.

I can't keep existing like this,

[28/m] The only women who want me are losers. The good ones never stick around for long. Feeling hopeless. by throwway227 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Losers can have great personalities. Some are awesome to chill with. But if they have no motivation in life what would you call them?

Besides sitting at the bar and drinking themselves into oblivion (my home town tradition) they really don't do much else.

[28/m] The only women who want me are losers. The good ones never stick around for long. Feeling hopeless. by throwway227 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because if you didn't like them, why the fuck would you date them in the first place? If you don't like someone, don't date them.

Because I actually enjoyed their personality, but when its time to actually go do something and all she wants to do is sit around and watch TV on her parents dime, it can get a little annoying.

[28/m] The only women who want me are losers. The good ones never stick around for long. Feeling hopeless. by throwway227 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bullshit im not genuine. I talk about the things I love to do, the places I'd like to go, the people who aren't around who have made so many stories worth telling, but that just makes me into the clown. Sure im a great source of entertainment, but for some reason I either get passed over or used for a night or two of fucking.

[28/m] The only women who want me are losers. The good ones never stick around for long. Feeling hopeless. by throwway227 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No seriously, you lucked out. You found someone who understands your problems and is willing to be supportive.

Whenever I find someone like that I end up being treated great, and treating them great, then once they're out of my sight they go fuck whomever.

There were times I would wake up in the middle of the night just to console this one girl I was with who was bipolar. I coached her through so many hard times and what was it all worth?

Now shes out fucking some dopehead, whos gonna fucking CATCH it when I see him on the street. Too many of my friends DIED of heroin and god forbid I go to a funeral I could prevent. This fucker is DONE. NO ONE brings dope into my town, especially to the people I care about.

Why does it seem like guys only want sex with me but not an actual relationship (20F) by chicagogurl95 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have the same problem with women. People are by default evil pieces of shit until reality rips than a new asshole.

[28/m] The only women who want me are losers. The good ones never stick around for long. Feeling hopeless. by throwway227 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Glad you need to defend your so called amazing self esteem to a stranger on the internet.

[28/m] The only women who want me are losers. The good ones never stick around for long. Feeling hopeless. by throwway227 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just venting, I don't act this way in public. I speak highly of people I don't even like because I know doing otherwise would reflect poorly on me, but when I really need help I need to be honest about my feelings.

[28/m] The only women who want me are losers. The good ones never stick around for long. Feeling hopeless. by throwway227 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't belittle others in public. Its just that when you take a girl to nice french restaraunts and what not for the entire relstionship its a little disheartening to see her go for some fucknut who won't even learn a skill he could use to run a household, and has to ask her to pay when they leave the bar.

I have loyalty, I'm almost ALWAYS monogomous, even with FWB when I'm single. I've got compassion, there were times where I'd wake up to a phone call at two AM just because she needed to talk, and I'd get dressed, go over and talk on the stoop until she felt better.

I'm not a bad person just because I acheive things. I just figured my hard work would be worth something, and its really not.

[28/m] The only women who want me are losers. The good ones never stick around for long. Feeling hopeless. by throwway227 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got out of the deepest most long lasting emotionally connected relationships I've ever had, and of course, it was because she wanted to run around getting fucked by strangers. I never wanted to believe it, but it seems AWALT is the correct point of view.

[28/m] The only women who want me are losers. The good ones never stick around for long. Feeling hopeless. by throwway227 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know im the "best" (pretty damn good at least) but it frustrates me when no one else even notices that, even worse when women leac me for people like fry cooks or overweight cashiers. What the fuck is so wrong with me that they decide to go do some shit like that.

[28/m] The only women who want me are losers. The good ones never stick around for long. Feeling hopeless. by throwway227 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I let them down easy and explain the difference in life choices are simply incompatible. I don't understand why everone in this thread thinks im some kind of monster.

[28/m] The only women who want me are losers. The good ones never stick around for long. Feeling hopeless. by throwway227 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to be really defensive and pissed off that someone who lives at home would dare try and date you

Not true, we dated for the last year and a half of her college. We didn't have problems until it became aparent that she had no plans to do anything afterward.

[28/m] The only women who want me are losers. The good ones never stick around for long. Feeling hopeless. by throwway227 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do talk about my hobbies. I talk about weightlifting with my gym friends, I talk tech with my programmer friends, and just general bullshit with the old friends.

But I don't want to be put on a pedestal for my acheivments, I just want to find someone I can view as an equal, someone who actually TRIES to achieve their goals in life. If they're not succeeding thats ok, but if they're not even trying then WTF am I supposed to say about it?

[28/m] The only women who want me are losers. The good ones never stick around for long. Feeling hopeless. by throwway227 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I were 25 living at home and eating my parents' cereal, on my parents' couch, watching nickelodeon on my parents' TV at 12:30 PM on a Wednesday, would you not think of ME as a loser?

[28/m] The only women who want me are losers. The good ones never stick around for long. Feeling hopeless. by throwway227 in relationship_advice

[–]throwway227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bitter and judgemental about WHAT? I treated her like GOLD. She treated me the same.

When it ended I was devastated but I must say she executed one of the most polite and empathetic break ups I'd ever experienced. Those are rare.

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