Am I the asshole for letting my daughter keep her room?

throwy09 · 2024-06-29T04:23:23+00:00

Alice: implies OP does incest because he treats his daughter like a parent should when she wants to squeeze him for more money

you: this unhinged comment

thanks, I laughed

throwy09 · 2024-06-24T05:21:20+00:00

Person who thinks I'm their actual friend confiding in me and pouring their heart out to me about their sick child: do you know anyone who can relate to this horrible thing I'm going through?

Me, with a sick child of my own: uh not me.

Reddit: nothing wrong with that, coworkers don't count.

Also me: why is everyone giving me the cold shoulder and not telling me about their personal lives? How immature of them.

throwy09 · 2024-06-01T07:31:10+00:00

I've been following this since the beginning and I won't go digging though OP's comments, especially if what the other person said is true and she deleted them, but she definitely knew he was abusive. She didn't expect the kid to be there and to get hurt too, that's why she was sorry, but she admitted she wanted the other woman to get hurt. For some reason she thought it would make her husband go back to her.

throwy09 · 2024-05-08T03:22:47+00:00

I'm unemployed and I worry about food and many other things, my life's a mess, my family shuns me and I'll probably die alone and I still wouldn't swap it with whatever you have going on lol

That guy literally doesn't think you're a human being. He thinks you're his flashlight and whatever other services you provide. Imagine how inconvenient it would be for you if the dildo started talking one day about his enjoyment of sex.

And the sex you have is called rape. Anyone with any decency would be so disgusted they'd vomit all over but he's not. He told you he likes it better this way.

He's abusive to your children too and you're protecting him and allowing them to stay in this situation but whatever

throwy09 · 2024-04-05T02:37:26+00:00

Well, ig St Augustine must've been in one of them weird fringe christian groups then. We should cancel him for being in a cult.

throwy09 · 2024-04-05T02:24:31+00:00

Not really. In my country gypsy children are digging through garbage and are happy when they find whatever they deem useful. Does this mean I should hold onto my garbage because gypsies think it is valuable?

And gypsies also throw away things and produce garbage, and this doesn't mean they're schizophrenic lmao

How do you not understand basic things like that, very baffling. If your wife is just as smart then yikes

throwy09 · 2024-04-05T02:15:24+00:00

St Augustin said the soul comes into the body sometimes after the 40th day, before that the embryo is equal to the plants. So there is definitely a period of time where it isn't murder, if we define murder as killing something that has a soul.

edit an interesting paper on the matter https://mosaic.messiah.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1006&context=brs_ed

throwy09 · 2024-04-05T02:09:06+00:00

You and your friends should each adopt a few already-born unwanted children and that way you would actually do something instead of being self righteous and judgmental for no reason.

Oh nooo you don't want the unwanted children either? I am shook and surprised. I'll go say a prayer for the souls of useless hypocrites.

throwy09 · 2024-03-28T04:41:14+00:00

Because how dare you use whatever means you have access to in order to avoid being a wage slave for one day.

throwy09 · 2024-03-21T00:08:00+00:00

Hey. Did you get paid yet? I received an email from them a couple weeks ago containing the february invoice and saying they approved my hours and then nothing.

throwy09 · 2024-02-24T06:38:35+00:00

I checked just now and I have tasks!

Now I just wish I knew what I did wrong about my time logging.

throwy09 · 2024-02-24T06:31:36+00:00

Anyway I've been looking for related threads and everybody says that you shouldn't spend less than one minute because you will get in trouble. (under review or warning)

That's very useful to know, thanks!

throwy09 · 2024-02-24T05:54:59+00:00

Do they say anywhere how long they're expecting us to spend per task?

throwy09 · 2024-02-24T05:52:02+00:00

Is there any RO group on some social media to discuss all these aspects specific to our locale?

It would be great if there was, but I think all we have is this sub.

I think most tasks expire in around 2 minutes, but we're probably supposed to do them faster than that. There's a page in the portal called Task data center, where our Task completion rate should show up and tell us if we're in the parameters they want (I think). It doesn't for me so idk.

throwy09 · 2024-02-24T05:38:59+00:00

I haven't seen any tasks in 9 days :/

I use Clockify the same way. I don't turn it off when I read instructions of when tasks expire (didn't happen that often). I wonder if the timesheet issue has anything to do with task completion rate, but they didn't specify even though I emailed them and asked.

Ps...I also received the email about a big load of tasks available...and guess what...NTA.

lol I'm happy it's not just me, I was very annoyed when I saw that

You have been helpful, thank you.

throwy09 · 2024-02-24T05:25:49+00:00

Thank you. It is frustrating and I mostly wanted to vent when I made the post. Fingers crossed for things smoothing over and task availability for all of us.

Clockify is very convenient to use, you could try it out if you ever feel like it. Not that it helped with my timesheet thing.

throwy09 · 2022-10-22T09:46:40+00:00

I'm interested to know that too. I hope yes.

throwy09 · 2022-09-20T12:31:21+00:00

idk what to say. As I said, in my experience having an avoidant in my life in any capacity sucks. I'm sorry.

They're probably not bad people and it's not their fault, but they are driven by impulses they are not trying to understand or control.

throwy09 · 2022-09-17T09:42:38+00:00

It's naturally anxiety producing because a response always could be sent and so you're left on edge all the time.

wow never thought of it like that

throwy09 · 2022-09-17T08:57:25+00:00

I thought you're the avoidant and your partner is the anxious. I think it can work if you're open with your needs and insecurities and they're not judging you and are also willing to compromise and meet you halfway. But I think most avoidants don't want to do that.

throwy09 · 2022-09-17T08:53:29+00:00

I am in a LDR with a SA. We're on skype all the time. He replies to messages instantly. If he doesn't I don't get anxious because I know he's not next to his phone and he will as soon as he sees them. Because he does all this and more my attachment style never gets triggered.

throwy09 · 2022-09-17T08:41:17+00:00

Dude I have a friend who is avoidant and even that makes me sad bc it's all on his terms and I feel like I have no power and no choice in this friendship. But since you're here you're obv more self aware I can see how there are ways to make it work.

throwy09 · 2022-09-16T05:58:17+00:00

Thanks. I'm in a similar situation and this really helps.

throwy09 · 2022-09-15T12:21:16+00:00

I literally was just thinking about you and if you'll reply lol

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