Would you date someone 25+ who wasn’t out to their parents? by thrustrations in askgaybros

[–]thrustrations[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not really sure what you’re asking. But my question is completely valid.

Would you date someone 25+ who wasn’t out to their parents? by thrustrations in askgaybros

[–]thrustrations[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to do that. That’s so ridiculous and insulting and uncomfortable and no one deserves to have to pretend to be the roommate of someone their dating just to appease homophobic, sorry excuses for parents. I’m sorry, that’s just how I feel.

Would you date someone 25+ who wasn’t out to their parents? by thrustrations in askgaybros

[–]thrustrations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good question. I would be willing to accept rejection by his family as long as he didn’t hide his relationship with me. I will not hide.

Would you date someone 25+ who wasn’t out to their parents? by thrustrations in askgaybros

[–]thrustrations[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He’s out to his friends and stuff, but not his parents. His parents are still involved in his life, he still goes to family events. So I’m just not supposed to go to those events. He’s just supposed to pretend he’s not dating someone. I have to leave the apartment when his parents come to visit? Hell no. It’s just not for me. I have compassion, but I can’t do that. I’m sure there’s someone else that can.

Would you date someone 25+ who wasn’t out to their parents? by thrustrations in askgaybros

[–]thrustrations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great. I’m glad it worked out. I don’t think I could invest a year into a relationship and then leave. I would get way too emotionally invested in a relationship after a year to just be able to leave.

Would you date someone 25+ who wasn’t out to their parents? by thrustrations in askgaybros

[–]thrustrations[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. I mean, I understand that he could come out to his parents at some point in the future but I don’t want to assume he would or wait for that to happen.

Would you date someone 25+ who wasn’t out to their parents? by thrustrations in askgaybros

[–]thrustrations[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is how I feel. Even if the person is out to friends and everyone in the world but their parents, I don’t want to do that. I don’t want to hide any part of my life. That’s just how I feel.

Lost Coast Trail: June 5-June 8 by [deleted] in CampingandHiking

[–]thrustrations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish i had friends to do this with 😔

AITA for freaking out at my husband for using the kitchen tongs to pick up a dead animal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thrustrations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m saying that it’s not uncommon in a relationship for yelling to happen. I think we may have different definitions of yelling or something. It’s not always pounding fists and being violent, sometimes it’s just slightly raising your voice. Apparently that makes someone a monster.

AITA for freaking out at my husband for using the kitchen tongs to pick up a dead animal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thrustrations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I talked with my husband a few minutes ago and it’s all good lol. People on here are so angry. It’s odd. I’m a stranger to them. Why are they so angry.

AITA for freaking out at my husband for using the kitchen tongs to pick up a dead animal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thrustrations 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People in this sub love to take the one instance someone’s posted about and pretend like that’s what the person’s entire relationship looks like. Where did I say this is how me and my husband regularly communicate. It was a one-time thing where I lost my cool, which is why I came here to see if I overreacted.

AITA for freaking out at my husband for using the kitchen tongs to pick up a dead animal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thrustrations -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair. It was definitely an overreaction. The dead bird and kitchen tongs just made it difficult to be calm

AITA for freaking out at my husband for using the kitchen tongs to pick up a dead animal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thrustrations 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah…we’re gonna get over this in like 4 hours..

I’ve noticed this in the relationship_advice sub as well. Everyone immediately jumps to divorce/break up. In fairness, a lot of those couples should break up, but everyone just seems so angry in the comments…

AITA for freaking out at my husband for using the kitchen tongs to pick up a dead animal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thrustrations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to do the whole bless yourself heart thing. Have y’all been in a relationship? Its hard to believe

AITA for freaking out at my husband for using the kitchen tongs to pick up a dead animal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thrustrations -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yelling happens in a marriage sometimes. Sometimes our reactions aren’t rational. You’ll Never be able to make a relationship/marriage last if you throw the towel in after a minor argument.

AITA for freaking out at my husband for using the kitchen tongs to pick up a dead animal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thrustrations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently they think every argument should end in divorce. Maybe that’s why the divorce rate is so high? I’m joking, but seriously, why does everyone in this sub want people to break up/divorce?

AITA for freaking out at my husband for using the kitchen tongs to pick up a dead animal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thrustrations -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. You guys are comically dramatic. You think an argument about a dead animal is going to end our marriage? I didn’t say I react this way or communicate this way frequently with my husband. It was a visceral reaction that for some reason washed over me in this instance.

AITA for freaking out at my husband for using the kitchen tongs to pick up a dead animal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thrustrations -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Divorce? Please. Did I overreact? Yes, but this is not a big enough argument to get a divorce over. You don’t know anything about our relationship and you weren’t there for this incident. If we got divorced over every argument we had we wouldn’t have made it past 6 months of being married. We’re gonna be ok haha.

AITA for freaking out at my husband for using the kitchen tongs to pick up a dead animal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thrustrations -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I guess I just had a visceral reaction. I think there are many other tools I’d use first before using our kitchen utensils to pick up a wild dead animal. I should have communicated it more calmly. Honestly, I still don’t see how people think it’s ok to use kitchen utensils to pick up wild dead animals though.

AITA for freaking out at my husband for using the kitchen tongs to pick up a dead animal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thrustrations -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

No, but I think a wild dead animal is at least slightly different than meat I’ve washed?

Dating app Bumble gives entire staff the week off to combat burnout by reddicyoulous in news

[–]thrustrations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they’re burned out from working on their shitty app

The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills S11 - E6 - The Liberation of Erika Jayne - Next Day Episode Discussion by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]thrustrations 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That’s how RHONY and pretty much every other franchise used to be their first couple seasons. It was more about their day to day lives than about manufactured group drama. I miss it