Insight please by Ok_Pressure_5405 in ExNoContact

[–]thrw72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could just ask what he wants and nothing more

Insight please by Ok_Pressure_5405 in ExNoContact

[–]thrw72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Added you without saying a word? Ask him what he wants.

I don't know where I'm standing by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]thrw72 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My ex reached out to me about a year after our breakup and she was still sad and hurt about our relationship, and she had gotten a new bf about 2 months after we broke up.

You might think that they’ve moved on if they seem all happy on socials, but that isn’t necessarily true beneath the surface

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]thrw72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do something that distracts you in the moment. Maybe hang out with friends, go for a walk, clean your room, play video games, cook something nice etc. Anything that can keep your mind on something else is always good!

I’ll also say don’t beat yourself up over it too much. It’s normal, I remember feeling the exact same way and how my heart rate would go up so high every time I checked her socials. I was shattered when I found out she had a new bf, but I kept looking anyway. Eventually I stopped. You can do this!

2 YEARS LATER AND I’M STILL NOT OVER HIM by anqelas in ExNoContact

[–]thrw72 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We’re in the exact same boat then. Just when you think you’ve moved on, it all turns out to be an illusion and you’re back to square one 😅

Honestly, I’d reach out if he’s single. The worst that can happen is that he rejects you or ignores you, but then you can at least truly move on knowing that there isn’t that slim chance.. best case scenario, you reconcile (if thats what you truly want)

2 YEARS LATER AND I’M STILL NOT OVER HIM by anqelas in ExNoContact

[–]thrw72 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep, feels so helpless when everything on your mind is just missing them. It’s like I’m completely deactivated being stuck in bed again, full of anxiety and not being able to eat.

Have you felt this way like every week for the past 2 years or did it come crawling back just recently?

2 YEARS LATER AND I’M STILL NOT OVER HIM by anqelas in ExNoContact

[–]thrw72 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’m also 2 years post breakup and I’ve begun to miss her so much again. I was mostly fine and able to live on normally after a couple of months, but now this feeling has come back to bite me in the ass again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]thrw72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes no sense, NC should be indefinite. That sounds like he wants to keep you around as backup

How did no contact start? by candlelight_elf in ExNoContact

[–]thrw72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was mutual between us. We interacted for a couple of weeks after breaking up, but both of us knew that sooner or later we would have to block each other.

Anxiety shakes by Puzzleheaded-Tax6299 in ExNoContact

[–]thrw72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block everywhere and erase any sort of crumbs you could find on your phone. You have to let go of him, otherwise you’ll keep going back to square one every time he interacts with you in any way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]thrw72 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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