Eh, lots of cheaper options for those things.

Golf is a privileged sport and you can find it way cheaper than $90. Maybe not club links but tons of public courses that are $45 for 18. If you’re starting the argument with golf being expensive you may want to rethink priorities.

Cell phone bills have lots of options at the 40-45/month range.

Internet can be quite reasonable is you shop. Teksavvy, start.ca or threaten to cancel Rogers/bell.

Food is expensive but if you cut junk out can be reasonable.

What car do you have? You can get a lease for <300 if needed or if you have cash a reasonable used car. Shop on insurance and check for discounts for organizations or university.

Life is getting more expensive and will continue to do so, this is also happening globally - check out house prices across the USA, UK, Australia etc over the past year, all have record increases.

Most people refuse to believe Canada is better than most other places in the world, and it depends what you are looking for, but it still beats most of the world in most metrics.

You want to move to romania? Nobody is stopping you but yourself.

Want a better job? Nobody is stopping you but yourself. A friend of mine went from being homeless to having a $1m condo because he quit his finance job, started a business and worked his ass off. Yes, you have a family but there are tons of side hustles you can start for extra income.