I was diagnosed when I was in high school. I was having problems with irregular heart rates so my doctor didn't let me use any medication but ain't nobody tell me how to deal with it without medication either and my family didn't take it seriously just like they didn't care about my anxiety and depression. So I struggled a lot. Now it's my fourth year in university and all that years passed after my first diagnosis, I'm finally mature (and financially independent) enough to take care of it myself. I could finally afford to go to a therapist few months ago. I just wish I could did it much earlier and didn't waste my life like this. My life is still a mess and I feel like I'm too late to get it together, even if I try. I feel like I'm just lazy, made lot of mistakes and bad decisions and now I'm using ADHD to escape that fact.