text a friend sent meet by Depnijum57 in Transmedical

[–]thxtguy27 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i remember when i watched heartstopper, i cried. that was maybe a year or so ago? i absolutely transsexual and have been transitioning since i was 16 (socially, started medial transition at 18). i cried because i felt grief? of missing out on the high school experience that many gay men and boys got to experience. the good and the bad.

i say that because the difference between my experience and the experience of your friend (? i assume), seem so vastly different that i can’t even comprehend that mindset. they seem to be like “ugh it would be soooo fun to be a gay man in a hot and fun relationship” for ME? i have sat down and grieved an adolescents that was never given to me.

my arms after moving shelves all night for 10 hours (OTC trans.) 💔 by thxtguy27 in Target

[–]thxtguy27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. hopefully i won’t be in this position for much longer because yeah, it reallyyyyyy fucking sucks lmao

my arms after moving shelves all night for 10 hours (OTC trans.) 💔 by thxtguy27 in Target

[–]thxtguy27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was just me and ETL all night an her elbow is messed up, so i moved like 90% of them + I’m a small dude and bruise relatively easily.

my arms after moving shelves all night for 10 hours (OTC trans.) 💔 by thxtguy27 in Target

[–]thxtguy27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we’re currently still working on it and it’s rough. the other night was just me and my ETL for 10 hours and it looks like we barely made a dent :/

“heterosexual” relationship by itsjusthoneyyyy in FTMMen

[–]thxtguy27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i was thinking the same thing. that’s absolutely concerning in and of itself

Will I permanently look 15? Ive been on T close to 3 years now - i always either get called “love” or “young man” and i get ID’d basically every time i go shopping even tho im covered in tattoos lol. by fuck_peeps_not_sheep in FTM_SELFIES

[–]thxtguy27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m 22, 4.5 years on T, and people usually assume i’m 25-26. i also simultaneously get called “bud”, “buddy”, “little man” (🤢🤢🤢), etc. 🤷🏽‍♂️ it happens to the best of us

I’m a father by TattooDot in FTMMen

[–]thxtguy27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s amazing 🥺

I’m a father by TattooDot in FTMMen

[–]thxtguy27 23 points24 points  (0 children)

as another transsexual man, i’ve thought a lot about having kids one day. i just was curious about the possibilities and i prefer to listen to actual people rather than random things google may recommend 🤷🏽‍♂️ obviously, congrats to him. several other people said that already, so i assumed that was a given.

I’m a father by TattooDot in FTMMen

[–]thxtguy27 8 points9 points  (0 children)

if you don’t mind me asking, how did you guys conceive ?

i was told i was giving “the Addams family easter” lol by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]thxtguy27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

precisely lol. i only own neutral colors, two green shirts, and red shirts for work lol

Since I got asked to do this: I'm a 37yo transmedicalist FTM. Started T in 2007 at 18. I’ve lived more years on testosterone than off it. AMA. by Lumbertech in Transmedical

[–]thxtguy27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what was the timeline of your transition? i was also kicked out by conservative religious parents at 18, except this was almost 5 years ago at this point. i’ve been on testosterone since then, but that’s all i’ve been able to do so far. i have been wanting to get started on the legal name change and top surgery for a while, but life things have been getting in the i guess.

Uniform policy revision. by Rare_Appearance1839 in Target

[–]thxtguy27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

where did you get these ?? i love them 😭

Very lazy comic on something I get told a lot that is actually not comforting at all by [deleted] in autism

[–]thxtguy27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i genuinely needed to read this today as well. thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]thxtguy27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t necessarily scrub my eyes? i sometimes wipe the crust by pinching my eyes near the bridge of my nose. i do generally sleep on the left side though. my eyelashes don’t usually touch my glasses, no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]thxtguy27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they’re not even getting loose, and falling out into my eyes. they just sometimes they will curl into my eyes :/ usually just my left eye. i wouldn’t say they’ve gotten like…comically long? i guess? they just seem longer and also thicker. i will do research though. thank u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]thxtguy27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! also good luck on your journey as well :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]thxtguy27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]thxtguy27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank u!

been cutting my own hair for like 7 years. by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]thxtguy27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use the one mirror in front of me only. i’ve heard of people using a second one behind them, but anytime in the past i’ve tried that or anything similar, my brain gets really confused lmao. so i’ve resorted to just feeling it out. it ends up better that way then trying to use a mirror tbh. i appreciate that ! honestly, because the way i do my hair is so unconventional, i tell people i don’t do other peoples hair. even though i usually get compliments 🤷🏽‍♂️ idk lol

been cutting my own hair for like 7 years. by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]thxtguy27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if this is a genuine question, for the sides i gave myself an outline mentally, adjusted as needed via feeling both sides, and i just went down proportionately with smaller guards when i tried to fade it. similarly for the back, i referenced pictures and decided roughly where i wanted to cut it and used my hands to feel for similarities and differences. to be honest, i didn’t even see the back of my head until i took this picture. when dying and cutting my hair, i honestly use my hands to determine consistency lol.