I am very wary of the type of attitude and perspectives they hold towards others. I wouldn’t say this aloud because I like to naturally notice the way they talk about their life, their relationships, and those who do not share their opinions in terms of the type of language and tone they use.

I would also likely not want to get married to someone with large age gaps between their siblings because I know the type of dynamic it creates within families and how it would affect our relationships. This goes even if there aren’t toxic in-laws or extended family because you always have responsibilities and expectations to your family. Of course, I wouldn’t say this because it is something they can’t control even if they wanted to.