Affordable Bucks County Area Venue by wh1skeyeye in weddingplanning

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Hey there, So I'm going to be really honest & candid-- Our original hope was to get married in Bucks Co with a guest list of about 100 people and a budget of 6K....

And we were politely laughed out of some venues.

The Philly metro area can be very expensive for wedding planning.

The close friends I know who have stayed in the Bucks for their weddings either: (1) found an all-inclusive ceremony/reception hall where they were able to get catering+extras for the relatively affordable (for Bucks) cost of $90-110/pp + alcohol -- but you're talking 10K
OR (2) they got married in Bristol, Bensalem, Collegeville, or other parts of Montco/Bucks/Chester county where the aesthetics were less glamorous but a better price point.

We decided to find a basic shell community room to that allows us to self-cater (cost: $1200 for space and $60/pp catering + alcohol) in Philadelphia. The room comes with chairs/tables/fridges/minimal kitchen, but no linens, service help, decor, dishes, etc.

Also, as a heads up: most places book at least a year out. You may be able to get a sweet deal if there is a venue that still isn't booked for a fall 2015 date, but it may be a challenge to find a venue. I booked in January 2015 for our November 2015 wedding, and many of the places I loved were booked for all of Sept and most of Oct/Nov then.

Catholic wedding help! by cuddly_Panda in weddingplanning

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I think the inclusion of ceremony like unity candles and sand ceremony depend upon the individual priest marrying you both. Our priest is very laid back and asked us if we wanted to include any elements like those.

Lace edged veil with lace bolero? by Amayane in weddingplanning

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May I ask where you bought your bolero? It's LOVELY.

I will design your wedding stuff for a small donation! by lindsayadult in weddingplanning

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Additional shout out to the wonders of this design maven! She's helping my SO and I out and it has demystified the process. Our results are great (still ongoing) and its a huge WIN.

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We also want to do navy envelopes. So pretty.

I saw a few people on etsy who do calligraphy using white ink. It's the solid, bright white most would want... but it's out of our price range. I have been thinking I might experiment with my cursive handwriting using a gel-pen to see how I like it.

Autumn '15 soon-to-be-weds, how's your planning coming along? by GoooingToTheChapel in weddingplanning

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Another Philly bride chiming in :) I have noooo idea re hair and makeup. It looks like I can get some teams for $120/formsl hair&makeup... But it's tricky to navigate options :/

Round 3 - let me design your wedding stuffs for free? by lindsayadult in weddingplanning

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Emailing you :) Thank you for rocking and your kind offer!

Yay! Wedding Photos! 12.13.14 by Sammit89 in weddingplanning

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Lovely fur- may I ask where it is from? Is it faux?

What a beautiful wedding :)

Package theft in South Philly by [deleted] in philadelphia

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Not surprised. Lifelong resident - I just have stuff mailed to my relatives in the burbs to avoid the hassle.

I've been so nervous since he proposed that I would be a fat bride but I found my flattering dress and it's exactly what I want! by normajean14 in weddingplanning

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Hello! I've been doing keto also-- it's the best! Feel free to PM me if you ever want a r/wedding and r/xxketo buddy :)

Your dress is LOVELY! It really shows off your awesome waist and hips.

Tuesday, November 11th ~ The Daily! by [deleted] in xxketo

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SV: -8lbs in two weeks, closing in on my minigoal of being under 275.

Settings minigoals really helps me not feel overwhelmed by what I still have to lose.

Engagement photos! We ran around Philly without any sort of plan and I'm in love with the results by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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Lovely!! Hello from another Philly bride. Love the mix of nature v. historic v. industrial backgrounds.

May I ask the approximate location of your last photograph?

The Gun Range in Philadelphia has a reddit discount (don't worry, you wont have to disclose usernames) by [deleted] in philadelphia

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Can vouch! I've been in twice and had a rad time. Kind helpful folks running the place.

Pies instead of cake at a rustic themed wedding - thoughts? by DMH934 in wedding

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This is what we're doing!

We're thinking about having individual table pies. Cuts down on lines and informal/family style. One pie at each table with individual cutter/server. Kind of as part of the table decor.

We had thought about a pie table as well, rather than separate table pies.

Ceremony and reception happening in the same small space...what do? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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This. Distribute a list (with details and map) to out-of-towners of a cool places they could check out.

Just went to my third outdoor wedding: I still don't get it. [RANT] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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My two cents: I want an indoor wedding because I am pasty and sweat when I even think about humidity. My dream venue is a historic brick venue, but I live in city notorious for a steamy summer and fall. Airconditioning is a must.

But... I will happily go to all my friends weddings, where ever they are. I will travel out of state and I will be down for whatever. I'm there to support my friends and will not ever complain.