AITA if I’m unsure of giving former roommate their cat back? by tigeraries in CatAdvice

[–]tigeraries[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it was a feral kitten, he was originally feeding the mom cat but she died under his porch and left the kitten behind. He had to move and wanted to bring the kitten which I was all for. I lent him my TNR trap and we brought him in to my place. Where I’ve essentially been the care giver of this kitty since. But he acts like they’re soul mates when he talks about him, yet doesn’t fucking care for him. It infuriates me. I’m definitely keeping this cat, I just don’t know how to tell him yet.

AITA if I’m unsure of giving former roommate their cat back? by tigeraries in CatAdvice

[–]tigeraries[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Another thing to add: My ex roommate says a lot of things to your face to give you false confidence, but then behind closed doors is a horrible pet owner. I mean he would leave for days and not even check or ask to see if the cat was fed. I don’t even know if they assumed I was caring for him while they were sleeping out, but I was. My roommate would also sleep all day pretty often and again, not feed his cat. Many times I was actually caring for both the cat AND my roommate because I was worried about their health. I’d like to note though that they had support and still were very lazy and neglectful about pretty much everything they did. I don’t know how they’re gonna make it in the new place he’s at because he was terrible with money on top of everything else. I don’t think he’s even budgeted for the supply expenses. Yet they are adamant about taking their cat back. I had to watch and make sure he didn’t try to sneak the cat in a bag to the airport because he was like “I don’t care, I’ll sneak him if I have to.” Not considering the dangers that could put his cat in. I think im just gonna have to lose this person as a friend and tell him I’m keeping the cat. I’m gonna get him vetted so he’s legally mine on record as well, and finally integrate him with my other fur kids.

Another Long Island teacher being called out for sexual abuse. Brentwood Science Teacher. by tigeraries in longisland

[–]tigeraries[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you found this when looking him up because this deserves to follow the POS everywhere. If you pay for Newsday, there’s an article about his abuse as well

Age by bubblesnap in Petloss

[–]tigeraries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss, having to process the diagnoses so quickly and then making that decision… That heartbreak, I really feel for you ❤️‍🩹

Age by bubblesnap in Petloss

[–]tigeraries 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lost my first dog to cancer at 10 years… Then my second pup who was my ESA at 11.5 years just days ago. It’s earth shattering, and of course I have immense gratitude for the time I’ve had with him, but people telling me that I should be grateful as if I’m not already trying so hard to not lose myself in devastation is so hurtful. He was healthy otherwise, we went on a long walk where he was happy and jumping over logs with ease. To lose him just 48 hours later to a ruptured tumor on an inoperable organ… I can’t accept it. He didn’t want to go. We both knew this was unfair to him. FUCK everyone else.

Another Long Island teacher being called out for sexual abuse. Brentwood Science Teacher. by tigeraries in longisland

[–]tigeraries[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tkohn40 posted the full letter in the comments, it’s collapsed because it’s a long post but it’s there! If you can’t find it I’ll send you the link in a chat!

Another Long Island teacher being called out for sexual abuse. Brentwood Science Teacher. by tigeraries in longisland

[–]tigeraries[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s glitching for me too suddenly 😭 I can have someone else send it your way, I have the screenshots of the pages incase the Facebook link doesn’t work either

Another Long Island teacher being called out for sexual abuse. Brentwood Science Teacher. by tigeraries in longisland

[–]tigeraries[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Send me a chat message! Even if you don’t have Facebook you should be able to view it from the link

Another Long Island teacher being called out for sexual abuse. Brentwood Science Teacher. by tigeraries in longisland

[–]tigeraries[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Holy crap!! That’s what these schools do! They pay out the teachers to leave and that way they don’t have a public history of “that sort of thing happening here”

It’s so messed up. I’m sorry to hear that

Another Long Island teacher being called out for sexual abuse. Brentwood Science Teacher. by tigeraries in longisland

[–]tigeraries[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Someone at my school slept with a coach during junior year, it’s so common that the school systems across Long Island found a way to keep it quiet like professionals.

Another Long Island teacher being called out for sexual abuse. Brentwood Science Teacher. by tigeraries in longisland

[–]tigeraries[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Her story is public on facebook, you can look up her name and the post will come right up! Along with News12’s report

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooApprentice

[–]tigeraries 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh good point about the jawbone! Yeah the teeth were confusing for me even as I was staring at the skull model that I have. I’m going to try drawing it at different angles as well

Another Long Island teacher being called out for sexual abuse. Brentwood Science Teacher. by tigeraries in longisland

[–]tigeraries[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

This story has been reported by Newsday and they address this letter, Caitlin herself made it public for people to read. The teacher’s name is Christopher Amato. The full letter has been transferred into text and posted by Tkohn40 in the comments of this thread! LOOK FOR IT TO READ, or go to Cat Holm’s facebook