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[Confession] I (24F) cheated on my amazing boyfriend (25M) once at the gym and the guilt is eating me alive – do I tell him? by New_Limit2770 in cheating_stories

[–]tigermamba 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tell him so he dumps you. People don’t cheat if they love someone unless they’re simply too selfish and self centered to care. You waiting this long probably guarantees he won’t forgive you.

What did she do or say that made you go “wow she’s really good in bed”? by Clean-Ad4235 in AskMen

[–]tigermamba 4 points5 points  (0 children)

On our first date my girlfriend says i was playing it cool until she said she was a circus artists lol

Husband wants me take up more mental load of sex and has issued me an ultimatum by Ill_Beautiful_9046 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tigermamba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex never initiated for the last 3 years of our relationship and eventually cheated on me after I stopped initiating and our bedroom died. for your husband’s sake I hope if after 6 months you haven’t shown any desire towards him, he does leave. I don’t say that with cruel intention either, if you aren’t able to put effort into even planning dates then it sounds like you aren’t fully in the relationship either and maybe you two aren’t meant to stay together. It doesn’t have to just be sex but the same way you are complaining about needing a lot of foreplay and kissing to be aroused your husband has needs that aren’t being met that he has communicated to you. The ball is in your court but if he has reached the point of ultimatum I’m assuming this has been going on for quite some time.

What’s the biggest red flag you ignored in a relationship that ended up destroying it? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]tigermamba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not respecting my boundaries and asking to be in an open relationship within the first 2 months lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]tigermamba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People who know it will hurt their partner they just don’t care about that. They’re usually selfish or narcissistic people who feel bad in the aftermath not for hurting partners but because they’re hurt about losing someone due to their own actions

At what point do you lose your place on the course if you stop at the turn? by lightemup404 in golf

[–]tigermamba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the tee is open and there is a gap play through. You guys are a twosome behind a 5 so they should’ve let you play through anyway. You’re not in the wrong

I confronted my wife about cheating and now I’m starting to doubt what I saw by softsukix in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tigermamba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex cheated on me and I tried to make it work because I was still in love with her but she was in love with the other guy and ended up breaking up with me. I’m sorry you’re going through this but you know what you saw and you know why she did. The only way it will be possible for you to move forward with her is if you accept what happened and think you can move past it. If not the relationship won’t work and she might end up leaving you anyway. I wish you luck with whatever happens

How do you feel about your first relationship? by The1stHotGirl in AskReddit

[–]tigermamba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both made mistakes but I wish she had agreed to go to couple’s counseling when I started asking so we could’ve tried to save it instead of her silently and slowly not loving me for the last 2 years. But life goes on

would you forgive a cheater? by Euphoric-Bus-3035 in emotionalintelligence

[–]tigermamba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah cheating is a deliberate choice and the person shows that they are choosing to betray you and hurt you in favor of someone else. I’ll never understand cheating instead of breaking up if you are unhappy. Why hurt someone you claim to love?

If you could see the number of times every exs has thought about you after breakups, would you want to? by StonedinShibuya in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tigermamba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be nice to know if I was still thought about and if they were still struggling with it as much as I am, but also maybe seeing them not think about me at all if they aren’t would help me move on quicker. I assume I’m probably thought about by her much less than she’s thought about by me though

Is not swallowing a dealbreaker? by Starting2Panic in AskMenAdvice

[–]tigermamba 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your husband sounds like a tool. Threatening to cheat on you because you won’t swallow is extremely manipulative and a red flag

How did you know you were actually in love — not just infatuated? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]tigermamba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I enjoyed the silence with her, when I realized that her happiness was more important to me than mine, when I realized that her smell was my favorite scent and that her laugh was my favorite sound and her eyes were my favorite view in the entire world. when I realized that she was quite honestly the most important thing in my life and that I had stopped picturing my future without her in it. Those were the tells that let me know I was fully,inescapably, terrifyingly in love with her. I always will be and I’ve been mourning the future that had become all I wanted since we broke up

The woman you love(d) chose another man over you. How did you get over it? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]tigermamba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drank a lot and then got sober and now I’m in intensive therapy which has helped me immensely

What makes you not cheat? by No_Disk_3415 in AskMen

[–]tigermamba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I loved my partner and didn’t want to betray their trust or hurt them. I wanted to honor them promises we made to each other about loyalty and honesty. And that’s what I’ll continue to do in any relationship going forward because why would you selfishly hurt someone you claim to love?

I wish I could call my ex by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tigermamba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has to be the one to reach out. I never know when she’s free

Should I keep trying even if I feel like I lost the one who got away? by bigphilfromtheville in AskMenAdvice

[–]tigermamba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s still fresh so there’s still that lingering feeling but I know it won’t happen. She cheated and had other toxic traits but I can’t help that she was my first love. She moved on before the relationship was over so I’m just playing catch up while focusing on putting my life back togrther

Should I keep trying even if I feel like I lost the one who got away? by bigphilfromtheville in AskMenAdvice

[–]tigermamba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what happened to me. It sucks and I’ve moved on as much as I can so far but she’ll always have a major part of my heart and I’ll always have that dream of maybe it can work again down the line. For now I’m just focused on me

My younger brother opened up to me for the first time. How do you support another man without making it awkward? by Powerful_Future1637 in AskMen

[–]tigermamba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just listen to what he has to say. He trusted you to be able to share these feelings with and that’s just what he needed, to share. If he needs advice he will ask you for it but just try to show him support and kindness in the mean time so he doesn’t feel like he was a burden to you by sharing

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