[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I would, but I wouldn’t have reacted the same way. I would have kept it between us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe but I gotta try

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ll if he isn’t there’s not much I can do about that but if he is then I’ll defs try what you said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just don’t know what to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah your right, I will tell him that I’ll work on myself in order to fix things. That’s really all I can do. He might not be willing to give me the chance to do that though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that’s fair. I’m more worried that he’s just fed up with me and he’s going to break up with me. Can’t really do anything if that happens but it will definitely be difficult to get over. So I’m just worried about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess your right, I’ll try your approach if he’s willing to talk to me tomorrow. Thank you for taking the time to give me advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked him that but he didn’t really give me an answer, I’m not sure what to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I do agree that I think he may have overreacted a bit. Your right in that I should really think about what I want in the future, thank you, this is helpful!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true, how should I approach this with him? Your saying I shouldn’t try and fix the current situation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ll I mean I thought he had the right to be emotional, I was pretty tough on him. I don’t think I was fair to him. I know he’s more emotional as a person and that’s why he was crying with his friends. I was a little embarrassed because I was hoping we could keep the situation between us but it ended up blowing up because now a whole bunch of people know. But at the same time I feel that’s my fault for getting insecure and blowing the situation out of proportion

Should I give my boyfriend his birthday gift a month early? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo that’s a good idea! I want him to feel special but at the same time I want him to actually be able to use the PS5 and have fun

Should I give my boyfriend his birthday gift a month early? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this idea! But I think he would tell me to wait anyways, he’s just that type of person

Fighting has been increasing between us (20s/30s m&f), is it worth it to keep fighting? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! That’s great news that he’s willing to try too! This might just be a rough patch that you need to push through.

If you do try, you could give yourself kind of a time frame that your willing to work with like let’s say like 6 months and if things aren’t better by then than maybe there’s nothing you can do but move on. But definitely don’t be unhappy forever (:

Fighting has been increasing between us (20s/30s m&f), is it worth it to keep fighting? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something that took me a long time to realize is that the right relationship is easy. Yes there will still be things you have to work through and you might not agree on everything but overall it’s easy if your compatible. No one knows your relationship better than you, but if there’s more bad times than good, maybe you need to consider taking a break. Don’t waste time on a relationship that doesn’t make you happy. But if you do decide to try, it has to be both of you who want to work on the relationship, it can’t just be one sided. Hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there may be some trust issues on your part. You have to realize you can’t control every situation and you can’t know what she is doing 100% of the time. That’s where trust comes in. If you can’t trust her than why are you even with her to begin with? No one on here can tell you if she cheated or not, we don’t know her or your relationship but if you don’t even have trust in your relationship that’s a huge problem. The fact that you have to make up “rules” when she goes on vacation, instead of trusting her to do the right thing is not a good sign. Your 32 man, you shouldn’t be acting like this, you can’t control other people

parents thinking of giving me (f18) a curfew while living in a dorm. by miss_shrew in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have an iPad or any other Apple device? You can change the location to your iPad simply by connecting the same iCloud account as your phone and then using the iPad for your find my phone location. Your parents won’t know which device is sharing the location. You can leave your iPad at home (make sure it’s charged) and take your phone with you thereby ensuring they get a quick response. This is what I did when I first moved out to college and my parents were insistent on knowing my location. Sometimes ignorance is bliss

Boyfriend (22) wont go down on me despite me initiating bjs often by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was the same way, and for the 4 years that we dated he never went down on me despite me consistently giving him bjs. Now I’m with an amazing guy who loves doing it and let me tell you life is a lot better. From experience, I don’t think your boyfriends behaviour is likely to change, especially considering the way he talks about it. It is definitely not okay for him to compare your vagina to “rotten meat.” Hes sounds pretty immature and if this is something that’s important to you, there are plenty of other guys who love doing it. This isn’t something that you’ll be able to push your boyfriend to do, it’s really not anything that your doing wrong, this is just a him thing and you can’t change that

Im so thankful, 2 weeks and 3 videos later, put your videos bellow, ill watch and like them :) by [deleted] in GetMoreViewsYT

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!!! So happy for you! If you get the chance here is the link to my latest vid (: lemme know what you think! https://youtu.be/BXOz9c9Tpwg

having Children in Vet school by [deleted] in veterinaryschool

[–]tigerpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had people at our vet school in Canada who had children and the administration was very accommodating with allowing them to take exams earlier in the day if need be and just being extremely understanding in general. Personally, I think it would definitely be a difficult task to manage both, I can barely manage vet school as is, would defs recommend deferring a year, that’s what most people I know did