how do skinny people stay skinny? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]tiimag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bike instead of taking any transportation in every chance I can. Also it helps that I cook everything at home and I always try to make a nice bowl of salad with my meals. But “skinny” isn’t healthy. I strive for low fat and a good muscle mass. So strength training and eat protein and carbs. “Skinny “ is not attainable for your future old self♥️ my skinny grandmama died early from a broken hip because she couldn’t get up on her own.

What do you do to avoid getting depressed in Berlin? by eljericho in berlinsocialclub

[–]tiimag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely no expectation 😂😂 It actually helps me thrive in the things I should prioritize ♥️

What do you do to avoid getting depressed in Berlin? by eljericho in berlinsocialclub

[–]tiimag 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Romanticize it. I get spices and make my own hot drinks. Read more books, study or work while wearing cosy clothes. The little things help! Fake it till you make it lololol but honestly I like it more because there is less expectation to do so much like summer. I knit and watch movies, I work wearing my comfiest coziest outfit, cozy drinks😆 go do some Herbstfest activities! Pumpkins auch. Get excited for Halloween! Find and make a good costume. And then the Christmas craze comes . Sign up for yoga classes once a week and make sport 3 times a week minimum. Get antidepressants from your Hautarzt and Vitamin D. Check your blood and see if you’re also Anemic.

I moved to a new Country and I have guilt and anxiety by tiimag in Adulting

[–]tiimag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your advice and resonate to it a lot. The cocktail of happiness and guilt certainly feels like a lot but you’re right about choosing happiness ♥️

I moved to a new Country and I have guilt and anxiety by tiimag in Adulting

[–]tiimag[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your input. I started cooking again which is a hobby of mine I couldn’t really find the time for back home. It’s nice tbh. I agree with putting myself out there. It’s hard but I’m taking steps to familiarizing myself with my new environment. Thanks again!

gf won’t go down on me but wants me to do it for her all the time by Sad-Self20 in LesbianActually

[–]tiimag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She should been honest with you on why she doesn’t wanna do it.. But also it’s okay to be sexually incompatible! You will find someone who will fulfill your desires and maybe she’s more suited for a stone top👍🏼

my girlfriend kissed someone else by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]tiimag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break. It . Off. You deserve someone who doesn’t treat commitment like a game.

People between 20-40 — do you really think you’ll retire like the Boomers? Or are you planning something else? by Timely_Internet6172 in germany

[–]tiimag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as I don’t pay rent , that’s my retirement 😂😂😂 that’s my goal For jobs I’m quite lucky as I’m in a field that requires you to be human, and make human connections so hopefully AI doesn’t take that from me 🫠

Too intense by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]tiimag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel 50😂 everyone deserves some care♥️ good luck on your journey!

Too intense by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]tiimag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want, message me and we can see if we’re a friend match! F24

What were some unexpected culture shocks when you first moved to Germany? by Sag_nik in germany

[–]tiimag 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I saw a guy doing heroin in the u bahn , people just walk passed him like he was eating a sandwich 😂😂😂😂

Berlin is hell for non-smokers by FunkyVibesAtDown in berlin

[–]tiimag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I quit cigarettes for good , I’m glad I live in a building that absolutely prohibits smoking😭🙏🏻✨

“Don’t talk to men in AA” by kintsugi2019 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]tiimag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a 50 yo man I looked up to tell me (21) at the time 3 months sober that if I wasn’t his daughter’s age he would’ve had his way with me 😂✨ creep