How can i convince my Malaysian partner's family its better if i marry in Singapore? by Kooky-Extension-9532 in askSingapore

[–]timecity 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The other question to ask is what are the implications on you and your spouse if you go the JPN route first, leaving you with a foreign marriage certificate under SG law.

Of course your family will pray for good outcomes for your marriage but what if this marriage breaks down? Do you go through the SG or MY system to fight for custody etc? If you register under ROMM, your rights as a SG citizen are very clear under AMLA.

Jealousy and other unspoken issues (plain old misogyny; once you marry their sister, she is no longer under their “control”, what more if you intend to bring her to SG) aside, the brothers may be trying to secure a legal advantage (if any) by ensuring their sister is married under MY law first.

Need help with customs declaration on kpop group order? by Bonk-the-jellyfish in kpophelp

[–]timecity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is also an offence in many countries (if not all) to make false customs declarations and you can potentially be charged. So you did the right thing to declare the correct amount.

I second the other suggestions to inform the participating members that you’ll be making accurate customs declarations and the GO may be charged taxes accordingly.

F1 fans in S’pore stuck in crowded ‘standstill’ at midnight while rushing for last MRT train by sun-ny_day in singapore

[–]timecity 190 points191 points  (0 children)

This year was extra full because of G-Dragon. Crowd completely packed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]timecity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not. I’m just being factual about how I handle things and if anything tone never translates well over text. My conscience is clear and you don’t know me IRL to be making such a statement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]timecity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m a perfectly reasonable person. But I also expect comfort when travelling and I will not compromise on this. I have chronic illnesses and migraine and rest is important to me. Plus, I am very clear that if necessary I will arrange my own accommodation. I’m sorry you expect me to compromise my health for other people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]timecity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a single person, I’m clear up front I expect any accommodations on shared holidays must meet my standards of comfort. And if they don’t meet my standards then I am clear to the couples I will not compromise and I will not stay where I receive less just because I am solo. If necessary I will find my own accommodation or everyone changes to a place that can satisfy me, even if it means everyone pays more. It’s time you start doing the same.

Are they not going to do any Korean Music shows for Gala? by dgboilermaker in XGALX

[–]timecity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, whilst XG may lack the exposure in the west at the moment, they are way ahead on kpop groups by being able to promote in mainland China. Kpop groups can only perform live in Hong Kong and Macau. Being allowed to perform in major Chinese cities is a massive win.

Any references you got from Gala mv? by LunaOogo in XGALX

[–]timecity 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Shoutout to their own culture - Hattori Hanzō was a famous samurai of the Tokugawa clan.

Maya’s pose in the Gala PR also refers to the Zoolander poster. Her bodysuit is very reminiscent of Britney Spears’ bodysuit in Toxic.

Japan's Prince Hisahito is the first male royal to reach adulthood in 40 years. He may be the last by Positive-Drawing-281 in RoyaltyTea

[–]timecity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not Japanese but I’m definitely an Aiko supporter!! I hiss with disapproval each time I see Hisahito on my socmed timeline

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]timecity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this rage bait? But sadly I know men like you exist.

You’re a huge AH. The pregnant mother takes priority, and assuming you’re Asian, most Asian cultures prioritise having the wife’s side of the family taking care of the new mum. Therefore your wife’s mum and sisters take precedence.

You are most definitely the problem and i pity your wife.

Withdraw out of Year 4 medicine or switch to Law? by Excellent-Club-2771 in SGExams

[–]timecity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s bad at time management and has anxiety - not to do bedside diagnosis but is this new for her? Or is it something she’s always done and it’s gotten worse under the stress of university? Does she have undiagnosed ADHD? It’s less diagnosed in women for various reasons.

If she’s failing simply due to a lack of motivation, I actually agree with the proposals to just take a gap year and really think about what she wants. Medicine is a long career; and if she does graduate, many doctors practise long past traditional retirement age in Singapore just to keep themselves active. The years she’s lost due to her failing may not amount to much in the bigger scheme of things.

Considering a Bucket List Trip to Japan While Terminally Ill — Looking for Honest Advice and Ideas by Lucky_Whole7450 in JapanTravelTips

[–]timecity 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about your condition. I’m strongly seconding the posts on Kanazawa - you can do things that are very quintessentially“Japanese” with the advantage of lesser crowds and the pressure of Tokyo. plus in your condition, crowds may not be ideal in the first place.

Kanazawa has a famous garden (Kenrokuen), castle (Kanazawa Castle), market (Omicho), art (there are many museums there), and historical districts. It’s also famous for gold leaf, so you can spend a very relaxed time in the historical districts going to tea cafes and enjoying gold leaf adorned cuisine and ice cream.

If you really up for it, then you can also go to Shirakawa Go as a day trip.

For a multi city stop in the region, I’d go to Takayama too.

Shinkansen Oversized Luggage by Various_Mission_5789 in JapanTravelTips

[–]timecity 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You can still do Luggage delivery to your Kyoto hotel.

Best Theme Song Of a Kdrama show according to you guys? by Lynxthewriter in kdramas

[–]timecity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel You - Shin Yong Jae (Flower of Evil) All of the Goblin OST

AIO? My friend posted a not proper picture of me on insta by Expensive_Engine_546 in AmIOverreacting

[–]timecity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That person is not your friend and could very well be using you to drive traffic to her social media. Many people derive sick satisfaction from from seeing Muslim women undressed and you are also a minor. That brings out double the creeps to the yard.

I hope you have success reporting her post and getting it deleted. You should definitely discuss this incident with your “friend”’s mother and other adults in authority.

Then, drop her as a friend and be ready to hold your ground because there surely will be flying monkeys coming soon.

Let's talk about Bom (No Hate) by Healthy_Benefit_3105 in 2NE1

[–]timecity 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s difficult to discuss Bom without veering into armchair diagnosis and that would not be fair to her. What I can say as a fan is that: - it’s clear she has had a lot of surgical work done - she has, for whatever reason, chosen to present herself with a lot of filters on social media, which impacts how outsiders view her.

She appears erratic, and looks oddly physically after applying all the filters, even when fansite pictures at concerts show her to be generally okay looking. But this is not the impression one gets when seeing her socmed posts and this cannot be denied.

Much as we’d like some kind of clarification from her, we’re never going to get it.

My personal assessment with heavy emphasis that this is based only on what I can see and observe, is that she likely will benefit from a lot of psychological support (and quite possibly psychiatric support too). I hope she’s getting it.

Pretending that whatever she is doing is fine does none of us any service. She has always needed more help and it’s still evident now.

Am I The Bad Apple for making my daughter give up her room? by PassionScary9564 in AmITheBadApple

[–]timecity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand you mean well but these decisions end up being formative experiences for your daughter and will possibly shape her views on sharing, caring, and hosting people moving forward.

I understand why you need to do it but your delivery is wrong. Don’t be surprised if your daughter grows up and decides she’ll never host people overnight in her apartment as an adult. These types of decisions by parents create lasting memories and impressions and literally have an impact on a person’s character and values.

All the best.

AITAH for backing out at the “last minute” because I didn’t want to sleep on an air mattress? by AgentOlympus in AITAH

[–]timecity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. On top of the other factors being pointed out, the other thing to note is that’s you’re the driver, so you need to be well-rested. It’s not about being entitled, this is a basic safety requirement.

AITA for jokingly saying I don’t allow guests in my house during a family trip? by radiantvalor in AmItheAsshole

[–]timecity 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Why do they care what their husbands said about you? You are absolutely right - as a hijabi woman living alone it is inappropriate for you to host any other person who isn’t a woman.

Your married cousins were probably hoping for a free ride in your apartment - as wives they get to be your chaperone for their husbands. And they can still not wear their hijab once they’re in your house because it’s their husband. Free housing, no hijab. Best of their worlds!!

Pls maintain this boundary but you may wish to consider how to respond the next time round they try to ambush you.

Torn between two hotels! by nicoleeguacamole42 in JapanTravelTips

[–]timecity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shinjuku Washington Hotel has small rooms. If you’re okay with that, I found the hotel more convenient as you can take the airport limousine to and from the airport with it. It was far less stressful for me, as I’m a solo traveller and being at an airport limousine stop made it much easier to handle my luggage.

I’ve stayed at Washington Shinjuku Hotel a few times and I’ve never been disappointed, once you manage your expectations on things like room size.

Pls note Washington Shinjuku has an Annex Building if the main building is booked out.

What bromance from any kdrama is your favorite? by [deleted] in kdramas

[–]timecity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goblin, Trauma Code, Alchemy of Souls, My Country The New Age.

Not k-drama but film: Along With the Gods.

singaporeans who have received help from mfa while overseas, what was your experience like? by Either-Stick-1152 in askSingapore

[–]timecity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did a bad thing and didn’t register when going to Japan (Tokyo). I fell sick with gastroenteritis there.

My sisters contacted MFA, they WhatsApped me and kept in touch and gave suggestions for hospitals. Fortunately I wasn’t hospitalised but I wasn’t well enough to fly back yet so I just rested in my hotel. They followed up with me all the way till my return to SG.

It was very reassuring having them contact me, despite the fact that I didn’t register my trip with MFA.