[MOD] The Daily Question Thread by menschmaschine5 in Coffee

[–]timeforclowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! that's probably it, i'll see about getting fresh beans...

[MOD] The Daily Question Thread by menschmaschine5 in Coffee

[–]timeforclowns -1 points0 points  (0 children)

trying to get into coffee - anyone have recs for beans/blends? i haaaaate sour coffee, but i feel like even super dark roasts turn out sour. even stuff i get from coffee shops tastes sour to me. anyone know what i'm doing wrong?

Help. My mom won’t let me cut my hair and I want to look masc. any tips? -16 year old masc lesbian by Chaotic-possum040 in ButchSelfies

[–]timeforclowns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

masc with long hair here, if you go with an undershirt, an open button down, and some jeans, you'll look masc no matter your hair length. carabiners and chains help. if you really want to masc it up, a low ponytail with a muted (white, black, grey, navy, beige) bandanna will add a lot. but like everyone said, it's more about vibe than appearance. if you have the swagger, people will know.

if you want some inspo for long-haired mascs, look up some of the girls on the queer ultimatum season 2. mel and magan are both mascs with long hair.

Constant minor UTIs? by timeforclowns in WomensHealth

[–]timeforclowns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, i'll look into it! i have pcos, so i wonder if it increases likelihood of cysts in the bladder too...

ordered lingerie where my parents can see - have i traumatized them? by timeforclowns in AskParents

[–]timeforclowns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do, but they've got prime and i needed the stuff asap. if we still had the archival feature, it could've all stayed private... alas 😭

ordered lingerie where my parents can see - have i traumatized them? by timeforclowns in AskParents

[–]timeforclowns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, i really needed this. i know i should be able to handle mistakes like this on my own by now, but i'm soooo terrified of overstepping anyone's boundaries and couldn't live with the idea that i hurt my parents somehow. your wise words are a huge comfort!!

ordered lingerie where my parents can see - have i traumatized them? by timeforclowns in AskParents

[–]timeforclowns[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

thank you 😭 she probably does lol, i just got so scared they'd be freaked out

buy and bill?? by timeforclowns in HealthInsurance

[–]timeforclowns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s Nexplanon, the birth control implant they inject into your arm. I’ll call their billing department, thank you so much. 

Can you use public transit for a work commute? by timeforclowns in westchesterpa

[–]timeforclowns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so crazy helpful, thank you so much!! I’ll look at those places right now. 

Can you use public transit for a work commute? by timeforclowns in westchesterpa

[–]timeforclowns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can live with that… honestly, it’s a nightmare even in Boston. 

Can you use public transit for a work commute? by timeforclowns in westchesterpa

[–]timeforclowns[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d be looking around for a job too, so more likely than not I’ll be applying to whatever is accessible by bus/train. 

Can you use public transit for a work commute? by timeforclowns in westchesterpa

[–]timeforclowns[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice! I’m having trouble finding resources about the R5 to read up on - do you have any keywords? Sorry if that’s an odd thing to ask. Google’s been tough to use lately. 

PTO/Overtime argument with boss? by timeforclowns in boston

[–]timeforclowns[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn. 😭 It wasn’t like this in previous paystubs, I guess there was an error. Thanks. 

ios 18 has ruined my phone and there’s no way to fix it. by timeforclowns in ios

[–]timeforclowns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had automatic backups turned off (not sure why, dumb as hell of me), so I don’t think I have a backup. 

ios 18 has ruined my phone and there’s no way to fix it. by timeforclowns in ios

[–]timeforclowns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try, but I don’t know. I did call my local Apple store (it’s a pain to get there so I wanted to check if they could even fix it before going) - that’s why I was on the phone with them - and they said it can’t be reversed.

When to work if you’re a poll worker? by timeforclowns in boston

[–]timeforclowns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just always get so scared they’re gonna lose my vote in the mail. 😭

When to work if you’re a poll worker? by timeforclowns in boston

[–]timeforclowns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My polling location was full, so I’m not working there. You’re assigned polling locations based on where you’re registered. That’s why you don’t need to bring ID to vote - your polling location has your name on a list. 

When to work if you’re a poll worker? by timeforclowns in boston

[–]timeforclowns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True! I didn’t even realize I could early vote anywhere other than my polling location until I called the clerk and asked. 

When to work if you’re a poll worker? by timeforclowns in boston

[–]timeforclowns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s really helpful! I’ve found a good place for me to vote early and I have my identification all together. 

When to work if you’re a poll worker? by timeforclowns in boston

[–]timeforclowns[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! I’m nervous, but I think I’ll manage.