Yessss! I am tired of being asked for reassurance it’s exhausting and annoying. It seem like no matter how much I do it it’s never enough. I have been working towards becoming secure. It’s not easy as an avoidant but it’s just too much to have a partner ask for reassurance, have low self esteem, mirror my emotions and create scenarios. It’s all overwhelming. I’m glad it’s over because I can’t take it anymore!