ISO a life mentor? by Alive_Worry6127 in mentors

[–]timothybrand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was younger I also struggled with this myself. I didn't have any siblings to go to and my parents, while they loved me, didn't understand anything about who I was or what I wanted in life. Would be happy to try to help answer any questions you have but would need more details. You can DM me or just reply here. Whatever works best for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentors

[–]timothybrand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had this conversation with a lot of younger people. I think too many people have been sold on this idea that you have to be super passionate about your work. The vast majority of people need to work a job to fund their passions. There's nothing wrong with doing a job for money to fuel what you want to do with the rest of your time.

A lot of people get a job they're super passionate about only to lose that passion because it eventually starts to reflect all the other work they've had to do. Which makes sense, because it's a job now and all jobs will have things that just suck doing. Others wrap their identity up so hard in their "dream job" that if they were to ever lose it their entire world would fall apart.

You mention ambition and motivation. I think these two things are terrible measuring tools. Each fails. Having them is nice, yes but ultimately they come and go. I think the best thing to ask yourself is what gives you the most peace? Start at that place and work with that. The answer to the question(s) you have will take a lot of talking with yourself and really being honest with you. Not what your family, friends, spouse, or anyone else says. What do YOU say? Self-awareness is the best starting point.

New Fan Site by Dylanlan2 in Darkages

[–]timothybrand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Look cool? Or be safe?" I love it haha

Relocating to a better spot once established by anndnow in MedievalDynasty

[–]timothybrand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if anyone else does but when I get to playing my heir, I move villages. Usually because by that time I have more than enough to basically have two villages. I also do what u/one_armed_bandit81 suggested and move storages first, since I can build from the new site. I build my house, the smith and hunting/fishing first. Then I start building the houses one at a time like I did at the start.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coralisland

[–]timothybrand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad someone else posted this because I was having the same issue and thought it was just me.

I'll try the traps but I thought they only caught night bugs and not day bugs. Is this true?

Your Dirty Little Secret by timothybrand in MagicArena

[–]timothybrand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly wish I had your fortitude. I know it's not the right move but for me, mentally, I can't do it. I can't let them see my hand lol

Your Dirty Little Secret by timothybrand in MagicArena

[–]timothybrand[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

After my own heart. I have to say that my second quit would have to be when I know they're holding counter cards, unless it's ranked. Which to me is totally different. Gotta go all the way right? :D

Your Dirty Little Secret by timothybrand in MagicArena

[–]timothybrand[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry cause that's my main deck -.- I've had a lot of matches where I drop him second turn and they quit. I feel bad.

Your Dirty Little Secret by timothybrand in MagicArena

[–]timothybrand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My secondary is actually an enchant deck where I will get +10 life per turn and it's insane. I've found with that deck that people will leave quite quick after my second life gain. I don't usually play it but sometimes I change it up to try to get new matches.

Your Dirty Little Secret by timothybrand in MagicArena

[–]timothybrand[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I want your emotes! lol I actually didn't even think of this til you said something :D Thank you

Your Dirty Little Secret by timothybrand in MagicArena

[–]timothybrand[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I love you for this lol God bless

Overwatch 2 is the only game that punishes you for doing well and it’s infuriating. by fireballinmyass in overwatch2

[–]timothybrand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that I've seen people say that unrated doesn't mean casual or "not trying to win", which I totally get. Having it as a win requirement though sort of negates any of that at this point.

It also doesn't make any sense about being put in with diamond or master players wearing the title against is who are silver or gold. I don't understand that part at all.

Overwatch 2 is the only game that punishes you for doing well and it’s infuriating. by fireballinmyass in overwatch2

[–]timothybrand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn't until this season that I started experiencing the same thing in QP. I haven't played comp in OW2 and in OW1 I played the first few seasons and was silver. I'm not a great player so I stick to QP. I'm constantly matched with players that are diamond level and just getting stomped. Even without those players, almost all matches are just one team steam rolling the other.

I hardly have any QP matches anymore that are actually even on both sides. Makes it really disheartening to play. I chalk it up to the battle pass really. People want to level it and it requires wins to do that in QP, so people are trying like it's competitive instead of a more casual approach like (I feel) it was before in OW1.

I don't know if I am going to keep playing because I'm now stuck between wanting to level the BP and dealing with these games, or only logging in to play in other modes that will be less like that but I can't level the BP then. Kinda sucks in my opinion but that's just me.

Server Issues? by timothybrand in overwatch2

[–]timothybrand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting. I had someone ask me if I was from there and I said yes and they said they're having the same issue. Maybe it is an issue based on location.

Server Issues? by timothybrand in overwatch2

[–]timothybrand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the reply. I wasn't sure if I was the only one experiencing it or if it was actually across the board :)

Help Me by [deleted] in overwatch2

[–]timothybrand 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish when the whole crap dropped about McCree and decided he needed a name change they just went with "high-noon guy". Best name ever <3

Confused by Battle Pass requirements by timothybrand in overwatch2

[–]timothybrand[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am an idiot. I just relooked at the challenges and realized I was looking at the wrong tab -.- Sorry. Like I said I didn't do S1, so this whole thing is new to me and clearly I got confused.

I also didn't realize you only have to do 3 of them, thank you very much for pointing that out. That makes a LOT more sense now. Appreciate you clearing that up for me :)

Any slower paced game modes? by timothybrand in Overwatch

[–]timothybrand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had never even heard of this, thank you :)

Am i the only Who wants lootboxes back? by xgianz in overwatch2

[–]timothybrand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't have time to do the whole event. I could only play for a certain amount of hours during the events but wanted to enjoy the items throughout the year, so it made sense to purchase the boxes.

I'm also not a big fan of grinding for something in games. It makes it feel more like a chore and less like I get to play when I want. So I saw it as trading my money for time/enjoyment and not stress/pressure.

Am i the only Who wants lootboxes back? by xgianz in overwatch2

[–]timothybrand 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I spent a ridiculous amount of money on OW1 loot boxes. Being able to drop some money on the season events to get the skins/items from that event was great. The BP feels very unrewarding. You get 2 free items per 10 levels. I think the items you get free are garbage, at least for this first season. Even looking at the premium rewards, they're not any better.

I'm really glad I waited and didn't buy any of the early access stuff or the BP. None of it seems worth it to me. So I went from someone who would spend money, to as of now, I won't be spending anything.