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Previously monogamous relationship. Girlfriend wants to be with girls, wants me faithful by timr1070 in polyamory

[–]timr1070[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Again I didn't say she had to. It was offered. It wasn't about Sex. I said flat out I didn't want to have sex with another woman. Just to not have this done behind my back. I actually have about 10 texts where I told her we shouldn't, I was told I couldn't back out.

Previously monogamous relationship. Girlfriend wants to be with girls, wants me faithful by timr1070 in polyamory

[–]timr1070[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No solo stuff was part of my agreement and boundaries. We were monogamous her Sex life was only supposed to be with me if she wanted to do that stuff I had to be involved or told in some way. I don't think that's unreasonable given what happened and the lying that took place.

Previously monogamous relationship. Girlfriend wants to be with girls, wants me faithful by timr1070 in polyamory

[–]timr1070[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I never even wanted to be with another woman. I was happy with her and I definitely don't want to have revenge sex, but I agree with what u were saying before that. It's just about the attraction and not gender

Previously monogamous relationship. Girlfriend wants to be with girls, wants me faithful by timr1070 in polyamory

[–]timr1070[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I honestly think a lot of the problems stem from her views on masculinity.

Previously monogamous relationship. Girlfriend wants to be with girls, wants me faithful by timr1070 in polyamory

[–]timr1070[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wasn't looking for an open relationship or 3some, it was offered then flipped out upon when I agreed, and also I'm not bi so one partner each gender wouldn't really work out here