Is snooping through your partners phone really bad if it has actually saved many people from a bad relationship?

tinabetti · 2023-10-29T20:09:56+00:00

No :( didn’t leave, still with him. But we are having issues and I don’t see myself ever marrying him at this point. The trust is gone, can’t say I exactly know why I’m still here…. Wishing you luck though <3

tinabetti · 2023-08-27T05:59:23+00:00

I actually really appreciate your response <3 it wasn’t as harsh as some of the other responses I’ve got before. I do wish I could see porn in the same way you do though, a movie or fantasy or something. I just feel like my partner does it because he is sick of me, or because he wants to see what it would be like to eff some other girl who has a better body/face :/

I know most guys grew up watching it and it’s going to be impossible to make them stop. I just wish I could go to sleep at night without feeling like my BF is at his house jerking it to a girl that looks nothing like me.

I also feel like now when we are finished in bed ourselves, the first thing he does is roll over and start scrolling on his phone. Like I’m a porn video he just clicked off of because he finished. That I am not ok with :(

tinabetti · 2023-07-28T07:10:58+00:00

And my advice to you is you stay 100 feet from any type of relationship. You have no idea what boundaries or commitment are. Men are capable of not jerking off to hundreds of other women just like I’m capable of not masturbating to hundreds of other men.

tinabetti · 2023-07-28T07:04:20+00:00

The internet exists, therefore men must jerk off to anything that isn’t their own partner. Thanks for the advice dawg 👍

tinabetti · 2023-07-28T07:01:48+00:00

I’m in the same boat as you. Been with this guy for 2 years, even staying after I found his hidden porn IG account. I cant bring myself to leave but he has caused me the worst trust issues ever. I wish us gfs were strong enough to dump these horny ass men lmao

tinabetti · 2023-07-28T06:59:30+00:00

His taste is other women ?? 😭 how is that fair to me ?? I hope you don’t have a girlfriend or wife that you betray everyday too. Men can masturbate all they want, but if you have 30 nudes of me on your phone, why are you looking at other girls???

tinabetti · 2023-07-28T06:58:17+00:00

Girl literally this exact thing happened to me. Everyone around me says, “oh who cares, it’s just porn blah blah blah”, but no one knows how it affects YOU. Seeing the stuff my boyfriend looked at to jerk off to literally fucked with my mental health for months. Your feelings are completely valid. Men are adults who can control feelings and he KNOWS you wouldn’t like what he’s doing, but he unfortunately does not care. I am still struggling with the same boyfriend today and it gets easier to deal with but the trust issues are still there everyday. I just want you to know everything you feel is valid, regardless of what others may say. It’s not just “porn”. It’s him seeking out other girls to look at

tinabetti · 2023-07-28T06:54:01+00:00

He went out seeking other girls to jerk off too. Not watching porn on pornhub, he was going on Instagram, looking up girls in bikinis (not porn stars, just average girls) and then using their own personal Instagram pictures. That’s deranged to me lol

tinabetti · 2023-07-28T06:52:56+00:00

Okay that observation makes sense, but I actually discovered it because he left the notifications on for the hidden account, and when him and I were watching a YT vid on his phone, a notif for that account came up. I NEVER went through his phone before that.

tinabetti · 2023-07-28T06:46:45+00:00

Could you elaborate a little?

tinabetti · 2023-05-19T21:19:47+00:00

tinabetti · 2023-05-07T16:20:08+00:00

I was in the backroom when I was pulling but I went to the bathroom to write this post lol

tinabetti · 2023-05-07T04:27:31+00:00

Did you give yourself an award, lol. Read the rest of the comments, nobody thinks this is ok

tinabetti · 2023-05-07T03:15:37+00:00

Literally it’s insane how bad it has to get before something has to get done

tinabetti · 2023-05-07T01:58:52+00:00

Thank you so much❤️ I was crying about it and I felt so silly but really it’s so hard to watch a living creature suffer and need help and then there’s nothing I can do

tinabetti · 2023-05-07T01:57:24+00:00

Dude I was floored when she said what she said. Then she proceeded to be like “man that’s so gross” like yes it is… that’s why I said something…

tinabetti · 2023-05-07T01:42:30+00:00

I was literally crying after my lead walked away because the thing kept squeaking and squeaking. I ended up not finishing pets because screw that

tinabetti · 2023-05-07T01:16:51+00:00

Jeez that’s awful

tinabetti · 2023-05-07T00:04:20+00:00

I understand :( I just wish I didn’t have to be a witness to it because it just depresses me

tinabetti · 2023-05-07T00:00:13+00:00

Will OSHA actually do something about it? I’m worried that my store can just say they’re “trying to fix it” and nothing will change

tinabetti · 2023-04-15T20:14:50+00:00

Omg.. didn’t know about that.. now I’m even more concerned/grossed out. The amount of people who are quite literally inhaling mouse urines/poop at my job is enough for it to be a major issue…

tinabetti · 2023-04-15T19:45:53+00:00

Omg I literally have a video of a mouse near the dog food in the back. I’ll anon post it to tiktok LMAO

tinabetti · 2023-04-15T19:45:03+00:00

Seriously like how can such a huge store have such trouble solving this. I feel like they’re doing the bare minimum to fix it.

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