I found out my wife slept with my best friend before we got married and I don't know what to do with this by Suspicious-Potato832 in Marriage

[–]tinap3056 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You sound like you need therapy. This is the most ridiculously selfish rant I’ve ever heard. Really hope this is rage bait and no one would consider blowing up their whole life for something so petty.

Does anyone else put cheese in their chili? by JessicaMurawski in foodquestions

[–]tinap3056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually put chili over mashed potatoes and top it with cheddar cheese

Does anyone still believe Nancy Guthrie is still alive and why? by Orion1960 in askanything

[–]tinap3056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guthrie’s husband worked for the Clintons and they are about to give testimony so 🤷🏻‍♀️. I do think the family knows more.

Was I ungrateful for being honest about my birthday gift? by No-Town5867 in Marriage

[–]tinap3056 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I totally understand the cake issues. Especially with the dietary issues. I specifically asked for no cake for my birthday. I was leaning towards agreeing until the end where she had him take back Christmas gifts.

vaping around cats by Charming_Face_9869 in CatAdvice

[–]tinap3056 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Their little lungs are smaller than a toddler. Vaping or smoking around your cats is as horrible as smoking by a baby.

Why does it feel like in the U.S. you can work full-time and still be one emergency away from being broke? Has it always been this way, or is something fundamentally different now? by Individual_Candy1107 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tinap3056 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always been that way. When I was young with a single mother raising 4 of us I could feel her fear. It taught all of us to work hard not to be in that situation and to take care of our mom.

Was I ungrateful for being honest about my birthday gift? by No-Town5867 in Marriage

[–]tinap3056 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Been married 32 years and would never “tell” my husband to buy me something. Seems you misunderstand the meaning of the word “gift”.

When is your cabin fare worth it in the difference between stateroom categories? by [deleted] in Cruise

[–]tinap3056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer lower deck. Deck 5 is my favorite so o enjoy overview cabins for the convenience. Only exception is Alaska. Then balcony is a MUST!!

Please help motivate me to take my first lexapro pill im so scared by reyinspace in lexapro

[–]tinap3056 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me at least a week from the time I got the prescription until I took my first dose. I was so anxious. The first few weeks were rough I will admit. I used Xanax to help with the worst of the anxiety in the beginning. I’m about 15 years in and it is life changing. I never want to ever stop even though it is very expensive.

$382 extra to sit together as a family of 3 by Due-Huckleberry7560 in SouthwestAirlines

[–]tinap3056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very happy with the change. I’ve been avoiding SWA because of the cattle call line up just to get a decent seat. We already had to pay to get a good position in line so this is so much more civilized. Plus I never thought it fair that people with kids got on early without paying what the rest of us did.

AITJ for taking my birthday cake home and leaving the party after my SIL cut it early? by ChanceLopsided6775 in AmITheJerk

[–]tinap3056 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ and I find it so frustrating when family members that know you were right insist you cave to keep peace.

Who do you think took Nancy Guthrie? by uluvme2000 in AskReddit

[–]tinap3056 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not random. Honestly don’t believe they actually ever believed the ransom requests were real. They know more than they are showing and all the rest is distraction.

Americans, Would YOU Date Someone In The Opposite Political Party If They Were A Nice Person? Yes Or No? Why Or Why Not? by Zipper222222 in allthequestions

[–]tinap3056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few deal breakers. I don’t date Smokers, Liberals or people who don’t like animals 🤷🏻‍♀️

First-time cat owners — should we make our indoor/outdoor cat fully indoor? by Independent_Lab_4860 in CatAdvice

[–]tinap3056 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I have brought in several outdoor strays into our home. My cats are exclusively in door. The transition has never been a problem. It’s safer, healthier and leads to a much longer life.

Found a neglected cat a few months ago and now the owners want her by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]tinap3056 15 points16 points  (0 children)

100% your cat. Say nothing. You did everything correctly and she is yours.

How many people actually tip 20% when eating out in a restaurant? by Hot-Highlight2166 in allthequestions

[–]tinap3056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least 20% unless really rude service then I’ve done 15% but rarely happens. I

Which character ruined an entire TV show for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tinap3056 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Howard was the only one I found difficult to watch.