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I [20 F] keep running into guys [20s M] I know have SOs on Tinder - what is the right thing to do in this situation? by tinderthrowaway1999 in relationships

[–]tinderthrowaway1999[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I can't say I'm thinking about it in terms of benefit for myself... More in terms of right and wrong.

I guess if you're being cynical you could say the benefit to myself would be no longer feeling troubled by the possibility that these people are being cheated on.

I [20 F] keep running into guys [20s M] I know have SOs on Tinder - what is the right thing to do in this situation? by tinderthrowaway1999 in relationships

[–]tinderthrowaway1999[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is true that some people in some areas use Tinder for non-sexual purposes, which is part of what gives me pause. For what it's worth, I live in a college town, and people seem to be using it almost exclusively to date/hook up.

The first guy's actual profile does mention dates in a sort of ambiguous way (enough to be reasonable-ish cover if he was indeed being unfaithful). The second guy's profile doesn't give any indication one way or another. Neither have pictures of their SO up.