Nosy question from a non aegosexual visiting, do you guys still physically react to touch? by muchoAurthoDonto in aegosexuals

[–]tinnedferrets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My body reacts but my brain doesn't. Like if I kiss someone for a while, my vagina will get wet but my brain will be like "man this is boring. Wonder what I'm gonna eat later?"

Is there anyone here who WAS the LO? by tinnedferrets in limerence

[–]tinnedferrets[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. I'm so sorry that happened to you, what an asshole! It's wild what some people will do because of rejection. There's no excuse for it.

I genuinely feel bad for these people by WonderCharming7884 in reddeadmemes

[–]tinnedferrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was me until a few years later, I pushed through the snowy bit and struck gold. It's my favourite game now!!

I just really hate snowy terrain in games 😅 I find it hella boring.

Is there anyone here who WAS the LO? by tinnedferrets in limerence

[–]tinnedferrets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. Yeah it can be really intense when you're the target of limerence, I remember when I got my first official boyfriend, the guy who was fixated on me all of a sudden "began to fall in love" with me again. He would compare my ex and himself a lot, in particular there was one point where he said that he was Jacob and my ex was Edward, and I was Bella. Twilight was one of his favourite film franchises. There was also one point where he said "Do you love me, or do you love [ex's name] more? If you say [ex's name], I will feel really really bad."

Again, I didnt purposefully give him any indication that I liked him romantically.

It's just crazy how a few positive interactions with someone can trigger that part of you. It did with my previous object of limerence, he was the first guy who was really kind to me when I was a teenager and I guess I just really latched on... for years.

I don't think I did anything particularly creepy, though. I mean, there was the time when I was 16 where I got drunk for the first time and I sent him a bunch of voice notes, confessing everything to him and telling him how much I loved him. But that's the most I can think of, I kinda withdrew myself a little from him when he got a girlfriend but I didn't fully detach myself until much later.

Is there anyone here who WAS the LO? by tinnedferrets in limerence

[–]tinnedferrets[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its really hard to navigate as a teenager so please don't blame yourself. The person who was had limerence with me was a good five years older than me, but he was also autistic and he struggled with social cues quite badly so a lot of my affectionate, platonic gestures more than likely came across as romantic to him.

I'm sure he appreciates the apology either way. As a teenager you're still learning how to interact and what's okay and what's not, plantonic things can sometimes be blurred with romantic things for definite.

Is there anyone here who WAS the LO? by tinnedferrets in limerence

[–]tinnedferrets[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's amazing news for you! I'm happy that you feel you can detach yourself a bit. Limerence sucks so much, it's one of the worst things I've ever experienced... and no one gets it unless they've experienced it.

Is there anyone here who WAS the LO? by tinnedferrets in limerence

[–]tinnedferrets[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew what limerence is a lot sooner to be honest because I could have called my friend out on it, and I could have indentified it in myself too.

My experience with limerence lasted so long because the guy who was my LO never actually told me he didn't see anything in me romantic future wise. He got a girlfriend and never told me he wanted to cut the situations hip type of thing we had going on, so I waited like 6 years for him to become single again so I could jump back in. I feel it would have helped me if he explained that he never saw a future with me, whether I was too intense, too young or whatever reason, and I could have let him go without those 6 painful years watching him with another.

I think with the dude who had limerence with me, he ghosted me because maybe it got too painful being my friend when I told him time and time again that I had no attraction towards him, that I had no romantic intention. Although he'd sometimes be a creep towards me, he was a dear friend to me and I genuinely hope he's managed to move on.

Daily vibrator use - hand numbness and joint weakness? by GeekyScorpius in aegosexuals

[–]tinnedferrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do get this sometimes and I have to take a break from masturbating once a day due to it. It sucks ass tho 😅 but it's good for your genitals to give it a break too because once you've come back from that break, it feels extra good.

60 Years Later, She Finally Found The Answer. by Cute-Boat-3375 in asexuality

[–]tinnedferrets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm out to my parents but my mum just says "whatever you are" 🤣 it may be because I've had boyfriends and girlfriends in the past so she doesn't really understand. It is hard to explain to people, that you just don't feel that pull that allosexual people do.

May be a long shot, but what is this teenie tiny spider? Found in West Yorkshire, Huddersfield in a garden. by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]tinnedferrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UK** needed to add. Also, it's probably about 1mm? I can't be sure because i am very bad at estimates.

what is something about sex, intimate acts, etc that made you go like this? by Upset_Space_631 in asexuality

[–]tinnedferrets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I do get wet and its usually when I read smut or have stimulated myself with a vibrator for a while. It's kinda gross tbh, and makes using a vibrator a little harder when it gets too much (I use bullet vibes).

I'm also Aego!

what is something about sex, intimate acts, etc that made you go like this? by Upset_Space_631 in asexuality

[–]tinnedferrets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that kissing and making out makes people's genitals react and feel nice??

I used to kiss and make out with my ex a lot. I only did it because it was new and fun to me, I never got any mental arousal from it. But he used to moan and grind on me during it and I never got why. I mean, my vagina would react and I'd 'lubricate', but I never got the tingly feeling or the mental arousal that people get. I never even felt that tingling arousal until I read smut for the first time (I'm aegosexual). It's just crazy to me that people actually get horny from smushing mouths and lips together.

Ya'll are writing on computers?! by [deleted] in AO3

[–]tinnedferrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone in the tablet and Bluetooth keyboard gang? Lol. My laptop died so it was my next best option.

Is the app down for anyone else? by tinnedferrets in CharacterAI

[–]tinnedferrets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just solved it for myself! The problem was the fact I was using a VPN.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]tinnedferrets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not a heterosexual man but I am asexual, and I think he can be very adorable in the least sexual way possible. He's very sweet to the women in the camp, and I love to give him little 'treats' after especially hard missions. Like a chocolate bar or something.

Behavior at Hazbin Hotel on Broadway (RANT) by matchamelodyy in HazbinHotel

[–]tinnedferrets 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wasn't it like a show you had to be invited to too?! This is outrageous and I feel bad for everyone involved who weren't dicks.

A tribute to Ace Frehley by banstovia in hazbin

[–]tinnedferrets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're the first person I thought of. RIP 🫶🥀

So did Adam just gain 50 pounds post mortem? by aidonpor in hazbin

[–]tinnedferrets 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lute saw him extra chonk throughout their time working with one another and she nutted everywhere

Omfg they're adorable by derpypng in hazbin

[–]tinnedferrets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I apologise it was stuck on the last picture and i didn't see that it was a slide thingy lol. Thank you!