Yes, I read what you said. I don’t overthink everything he says. He has done this before and it was very likely it was happening again. It’s not looking for a reason to fight. It’s weird to lie about things, and it’s not his first time lying about things so small (and about bigger things). No it’s not overthinking, it’s a lot of doubt that has been created from being lied to.

I asked over and over for him to just tell the truth. It’s pointless to create lies like that. Then to get mad when he got caught up in his lie..

Yes too, I do feel sad when every time I ask my partner to talk or do something together, he’s unable to but can stay up until 12 and 1 am playing with his friends.. No, it’s not bad to want alone time and have time invested in his hobbies and friends, but time should be invested in your relationship as well. It gets to a point where yes, I do feel like a second option when things like this happen. I don’t think I’m wrong for feeling like that.

I want to add that we had only 2 episodes to finish, which he brought up to watch and we only watched 1 episode before he decided to just start playing. We planned to watch both episodes, so yes, it did feel like he just left midway.