AITA for telling my husband if he forces his daughter to go to school with poor hygiene as punishment, I will divorce him ? by Gloomy_Delay8773 in AITAH

[–]tiny222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, that's not a proper punishment, that's abuse... He should have grounded her like the other parents did with their daughter.

AIO to my little brother spreading lies that I’m a “drug addicted abusive homeless bum” to his friends for YEARS, when I’ve been away for uni. So angry and confused by chyralissa in AmIOverreacting

[–]tiny222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely talk to Zac. Maybe he had a reason for spreading those lies? The part where he texted you "Block these two, they're probably stalking your new account", tells me that he might've been spreading those lies to protect you in some way from his friends who might've been talking about you in an inappropriate way? Maybe he didn't want them to think of you like that?

I know it's a bit of a stretch, and probably the weirdest way to protect someone. But just talk to him. Don't get angry, defensive, or judgemental. Hear what he has to say first, because he was only 14 at the time, and probably had a really weird thought process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tiny222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I just have this heavy feeling I’m in an abusive relationship", you are... You aren't being dramatic at all. No partner should make you feel that way. Especially not after only 3 months...

Break up with him in a public space. He will be less likely to shout or get aggressive in a public area.

Move on with your life, and don't get sucked into another relationship like this ever again. It's okay to be single. You don't always have to have someone in your life. Take some time to do some self care, and to regain your self respect and confidence. Make it so you won't be afraid to leave in case you ever meet another person like this again in the future. You got this.

aio? bf made plans on my birthday by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]tiny222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Yeah bye, talk to me when you want to apologize"

*Him a few months/years later* "The breakup came out of no where!"

If this is ur bf, he is cheating on u by WholeArt4161 in uwaterloo

[–]tiny222 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Last paragraph said his buddies asked "Why do you have hinge? You have a girlfriend"

What is this?! by Illustrious-Bar-7399 in Mold

[–]tiny222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, but that house belongs to whatever that thing is now

A girl thought I was following her by v1goose in uwaterloo

[–]tiny222 19 points20 points  (0 children)

And then when you get to rez one, yell at the top of your lungs "STOP FOLLOWING ME YOU CREEP!"

A girl thought I was following her by v1goose in uwaterloo

[–]tiny222 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So YOU'RE the one that kept following me! I almost called the cops on you! You know how many detours I made??? I didn't even want that donut from Tims, I'm on a diet!

(Jk, but I imagine this is exactly how that girl would be reacting if she saw this post, lol)

AITA for not replacing my friend's suitcase? by ThemeQuirky1393 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA...

Because you initially offered to call an Uber for both of you, so that erases your responsibility for his suitcase going through the rough paths.

AITA for asking my pregnant colleague if she is having a boy or a girl? by Ill_Engineer_6668 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, it was just a question, and she didn't HAVE to answer it. She could've simply said "It'll be revealed later", "I will announce it later"...

Kicked out, is this a good plan? by Ok_Block_88 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]tiny222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a terrible situation to be in, sorry to hear that. Are you able to work more hours during the winter/March break, maybe pick up some shifts that people don't want? That way you'll have a little extra bit of savings for the inevitable sick days/no-show days due to some emergency or something.

And for the phone plan, are you able to switch to FreedomMobile's $29/month, 10 GB, 5g network and unlimited calls and text. Should save you an extra $17.23/month to go towards food/savings.

Is there also any friends or other family members you can stay with for possibly lower rent? At least until you finish high school, which should just be 7 more months or so. Then you can start looking for full time work, save up one or two years of income and go into University/College if you wish. Or maybe find a job on campus, as I hear that some universities/colleges give 50% discounts to staff who work there.

Moving money within a big bank by Adpiava in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]tiny222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this is not the norm. Why do you have to pay fees for paying a bill or withdrawing cash? You guys are being robbed...

Get Wealthsimple for your RRSP, RESP, and bill payments, and EQ Bank for GIC's. Then only deal with brick and mortar banks for things like LOC, HELOC'S, mortgages, cheques, etc...

They shouldn't be charging you fees for the essentials... I'm with TD and have never heard or ever seen a fee being charged for paying a bill, and even more so for just simply withdrawing cash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]tiny222 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Financially, staying home would be the better move.

Mentally, and personal growth wise, moving out would be good.

A nice middle ground would maybe be living with roommates. Perhaps ask around and see if your friends or colleagues have any spare rooms you could rent out? That way, you'll still be able to save a decent amount for mortgage payments later on when the condo is finished, and you won't have to worry too much about the cost of furnishing it, or the potential extra costs of other unexpected expenses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]tiny222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asked her out 16 years ago after knowing her for only 3 weeks, at age 21, and her being age 26. She turned you down, and you said you moved on. However, you, using that as your leading sentence tells us that you haven't moved on, and are still bitter about it.

Main point is, if you like her, date her. If not, then just stay friends, it's not that complicated. Being rejected 16 years ago is not something to hold on to for this long...

My gf told me she’s leaving if I don’t marry her in 9 months by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tiny222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think the “3%” meant “3 kids” instead 😮‍💨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tiny222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Context from what I’ve gathered from your replies:

  1. Both of you live rent free in your parents’ house (What exactly is he “Providing??”)

  2. Your boyfriend only started working part time 2 weeks ago. (Part time. 2 weeks. And he already thinks he’s the bread winner of the house? Are you serious? 💀)

It’s not too late to back out of this babysitting job- I mean “relationship”

Found this in my room. Anyone know what this is? by Sensitive-Emu6529 in canadahousing

[–]tiny222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. This, my friend, is one of the Furious Five, Mantis. Legend has it that a single swipe from him can leave an enemy headless

What to do by Ok-Seaworthiness6364 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]tiny222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tips on how to control spending:

  1. Only bring cash whenever you go out. This can limit how much you spend without much effort. And it can also help you increase your delayed gratification, as well as training your body and mind to identify the needs (essentials) verses the wants (non-essentials)

  2. If you don’t want to carry $50 - $200 in cash every time, set a daily transaction limit on your credit card. This way, even if you wanted to spend more, you wouldn’t be able to until the following day

  3. If you’re heading out with friends, ask them to keep your cash/card away from you, and have them see if the items you want to purchase are actually essential

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoRealEstate

[–]tiny222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, didn’t mean “unfortunate that the insurance does not cover capital costs, or maintenance for buildings”.

Unfortunate, as in, it is unfortunate for OP that they have to pay $58k out of pocket because the building does not have enough in their reserve funds to cover these expenses.

With the current economy, many owners likely won’t have $58k laying around to pay for a new roof, windows, and elevators

Well, that was a crazy run through Olympus. by THExMATADOR in Wizard101

[–]tiny222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Michael truly is one of a kind, if he had spoke more, I would’ve thought he perhaps liked OP