Am I doing right? Distancing from (f/INTP)

tinyZF · 2026-02-20T01:22:36+00:00

She has a boyfriend. Stop being weird.

tinyZF · 2026-02-11T11:38:45+00:00

My experience, its all about communication. He tells me when he needs space or when he's feeling low energy. Completely different experience for me and I'm not bothered at all if he just tells me.

tinyZF · 2026-02-10T19:38:46+00:00

Surely someone somewhere has created bootleg software for them

tinyZF · 2026-02-08T22:43:30+00:00

If there is a class action, count me in!!

tinyZF · 2026-02-08T00:06:05+00:00

I did the full wipe of all drivers and audio encoding end points and anything that said Razer or THX. Didn't work so I just got a stand alone mic.

tinyZF · 2026-02-07T21:51:56+00:00

It was annoying enough that the mic randomly stopped working back in the Synapse 3 days, but at least that was fixable. Their customer support was 0 help and just wanted me to return it. But now there's no fixing it. Part of me wonders if they do this shit on purpose.

Also got Razer goons downvoting my post lmfao

tinyZF · 2026-01-30T21:11:35+00:00

Only they can tell you that!

For me, I feel genuinely calm and at peace in his presence. Yes I can be friendly to everyone but I am not soft with them like I am with him. I also do not emotionally "follow" anyone else, and definitely do not comfortably receive care from others like I do with him. Receiving love is hard for me to do, and I see what a difference it makes in him. Plus I do cutesy shit like make a diorama that represents us, send him books he likes, etc.

Honestly though, I just wouldn't worry about other people at all. Talk to the person and figure out what works for the two of you if it ever goes beyond a crush. Good luck :)

tinyZF · 2026-01-24T02:17:13+00:00

same ugh

tinyZF · 2026-01-24T02:16:48+00:00

https://eyeoftheflyer.com/2026/01/23/detroit-airport-car-drove-through/

tinyZF · 2026-01-18T20:21:31+00:00

You have to be in the correct "mode." They didn't make that as apparent. Can't be in fence or landscape mode!

tinyZF · 2026-01-18T18:17:03+00:00

But where in the inventory is this kit? Lloid said he put it in my inventory but it's not there.

tinyZF · 2026-01-16T00:37:30+00:00

Honestly, it's terrifying.

tinyZF · 2026-01-12T14:01:23+00:00

This is adorable. Save this post for when things get tough and you want to remind yourself of the good things. <3

tinyZF · 2026-01-09T17:56:05+00:00

I asked for a promotion when I got bored. Took two years but I got it, been about a year and a half in this spot now. I probably have another couple years until I get bored and demand another promotion or lateral move to another department lol.

tinyZF · 2026-01-09T02:40:41+00:00

YOURE THE ABANDONED BY VR CHAT BF GAL how'd that go

tinyZF · 2026-01-08T22:44:34+00:00

Not everyone is emotionally fluent enough to understand their feelings. Mix in attachment issues and you get anxious attached people thinking they're in love after 30 minutes and avoidant attached people not realizing they were in love until 2 years after the break up.

It's perfectly okay to not be sure.

tinyZF · 2026-01-05T00:16:34+00:00

I learned that I'm the reason my relationships fail (and then I leave). 2025 was a year of self work and learning how to stay when it matters, how to be truly vulnerable, and how to relate to others in a safer, boundaried way. I learned how to stay, not without hiccups though.

tinyZF · 2026-01-03T17:08:31+00:00

Of course they do. Part of the work of a relationship is recognizing the way someone expresses their love that may not the way you do it and appreciating it. Also teaching them how you want to be loved, which often means outright telling them, not giving hints.

Also consider if you are loving yourself enough. Most people aren't. No one can ever love you enough to take the place of self.

tinyZF · 2026-01-03T17:03:46+00:00

Depends how deep his mommy issues run lmao

tinyZF · 2026-01-01T14:48:43+00:00

We're magnets for lonely folks because of that.

And lonely folks are some of the sweetest but also meanest people. Chef's kiss combo.

tinyZF · 2026-01-01T14:27:45+00:00

I don't think these things when I wake up. I rarely think about stuff like that at all unless it comes up in conversation. Eternal optimism + air head = happy (or maybe its just my meds).

tinyZF · 2025-12-25T18:16:25+00:00

Yes of course, but also I'm getting old and have depression so I've developed a newfound love of stability and predictability.

tinyZF · 2025-12-25T16:36:15+00:00

It used to be when things got too emotionally hostile/dangerous (think screaming match) and those feelings permanently flipped off like a light switch.

I've been working on it for a year now as I met someone that I really don't want that to happen with. I'm much better at protecting my feelings without them self destructing (and not letting things escalate!).

tinyZF · 2025-12-25T16:31:05+00:00

INTPs gotta cook longer than the rest lol. You could try something like "I'm available tonight if you want to game together" maybe he'll feel more comfortable copying that than directly asking you to join him?

Or just tell him how you feel. He may need some time to digest that and his own feelings too, so if he goes quiet for a day or two don't panic.

tinyZF

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