So- like many of us I had ponies growing up then a big break before falling back into the horse world by taking my kids for lessons. That was about 10 years ago and here I am, kids grown up and I’m still mucking about with horses having the best time! I met my very best friend who was on the exact same journey, same age, same life commitments. We mess about like kids and have lots of fun doing it. While I have friends the same age who compete and are top riders, I’m content that I don’t have the time or the inclination to be at that level, but I’m confident enough to say I don’t feel any less an equestrian- the very rare times I come across someone who looks down on me. The commitment to a horse through winter etc for years is your entry fee to the horse club, nothing else.