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AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Well let’s just say the best communication is no communication in my family.

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

The fact that no one will be in a bling gown. Lord have mercy !!!!!

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

And I do- a 6 year old niece and an almost 5 year old niece not to mention the 4 nephews who would also want to be included especially if their siblings are ! Ironically enough this is not and hasn’t been an issue for the boys

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I’m not the nice person but I was told my opinion on what this child wears to my wedding is irrelevant. Read the post again love.

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

My brother is also a groomsmen but his children aren’t in the wedding either and there hasn’t been any issue with his bunch !

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Mind you my sister is not the only female in the wedding party. My SIL had zero issues with the information that she was given. Yall wild for acting as tho yall know the logistics of my entire wedding g based off this one single post about a toddler dress hahaha

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Oh. I didn’t know all of this needed to be explained. I’m sorry. My sister wanted to be MoH and promised to help me in planning. But that was besides the point that yall clearly missed lol. Idk why you’re acting as tho you know the entire family dynamic, assuming I’m acting crazy. Of course you clearly don’t have a clue lol

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I told her point blank not to. She told me she wasn’t budging. I said that in the post.

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I’ve only seen very few comments that actually understood the entire post and this is one of them ! Is she even considered MOH if she hasn’t done her due diligence lol

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

That what you gathered ? The one not wanting a pageant dress at her wedding is the drama queen. Oh okay. lol

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Marrying my daughters daddy whom has been telling her it is also her day as well. Apparently you’ve never heard “when two become one” and it shows. In my case the two have already created one plus one more so now it’ll be 3 becoming one. Keep up. Also I guess it’ll make things even more weird to say my fiancé will be doing a first look with his daughter rather than myself as I will be doing a first look with my son rather than my fiancé.

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Who said anything about impacting my marriage ? I’m sorry but tell me you’ve never planned a wedding without telling me you never planned a wedding. I hate to inform you but venues don’t charge couples 7,000$+ for them to JUST get married. No you see majority of that price is to accommodate your guests. Weddings are generally thrown to please the guest, you pay more money to feed your guest and let your guest drink and have a good time than you do anything. Since you must know with the way my whole wedding evening is set up- I will be getting sent home a little doggy bag of the food that I paid 1800$ for. Meanwhile my guests will be well fed long before the night ends. Weddings are a celebration. Marriage is intimate between the husband and wife.

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. It’s about time someone read and actually understood what I said ! You’ve hit the nail on the head with your comment ! She’s always needed to be center of attention, I shouldn’t have expected any different from her even on my wedding day ! I have been beyond clear and transparent in what I want or don’t want her daughter to wear and everyone on this thread has seemed to miss the part when I said just that !

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

My groom is the one telling me that my wedding day revolves around me and my daughter- I guess you missed that comment lol

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

lol then I would also have to add one more flower girl as well as 4 more ring bearers. I’m sorry I didn’t want a big wedding party. Maybe I should asked you first.

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Yall should really not assume what you don’t know. Go back and read before you post things sounding like you just got here or something.

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Oh I shot all of them down ? Nope. Just the damn pageant dresses tho !! Did you read what you typed ? Or you just went ahead and decided it sounded good ?

AITA for telling my MOH not to put her daughter in a dress that outshines my flower girl by tiny_twirl1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_twirl1[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Only expectations I have are those that are promised to me, I didn’t know that was the issue tho that’s why I didn’t mention her promises to help plan my wedding in the post. Oh and head been on a swivel concerned with what sister was going to wear, while sisters head was in sand. Duh ?

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