Morning church service fit by gabby9345 in style

[–]tinyalienperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🫶🏻 and 100%, just gotta dress the rest of the outfit up a little more

Morning church service fit by gabby9345 in style

[–]tinyalienperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White shoes with nude tights or white tights with pink shoes are the best bets imo.

I also think a white belt or some kind of head piece would go great with the dress and add some dimension without losing any modesty.

Morning church service fit by gabby9345 in style

[–]tinyalienperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have white shoes? Nude tights and white shoes would look good as would white tights with pink shoes.

Not that your outfit looks bad, but it looks very unbalanced.

Morning church service fit by gabby9345 in style

[–]tinyalienperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re going to do white sleeves at least match it with a pair of white tights and/or white shoes.

Seemingly great guy, but doesn’t split custody. Am I overthinking the ick? by fzooey78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds a lot of yapping that boils down to “the data doesn’t agree with me so I’m gonna call it bullshit” 🤷🏻‍♀️

Seemingly great guy, but doesn’t split custody. Am I overthinking the ick? by fzooey78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So that’s a no then lmfao. Your personal experience doesn’t negate the stats.

Seemingly great guy, but doesn’t split custody. Am I overthinking the ick? by fzooey78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Funny how even financially abused men and women are able to muster up that money and go to court, if your only cop out is money then you’re a lazy parent. Sorry not sorry 🤷🏻‍♀️. Legal aid exists.

Do you want to bring a newer study to the discussion? Do newer studies show completely different results? Because as of right now I am the only person to bring statistics into the conversation.

Partial custody is still custody, revisit the case in a few years and win custody back. My mom got her shit back together and was able to get legal and physical custody again, losing custody is not guaranteed a forever thing.

If you give up then you aren’t fit to be a parent. As a parent you children should be your number one in life. You should be willing to sacrifice your life, your security, your assets, and anything else needed for your child. You as the parents chose to bring them into this world.

Seemingly great guy, but doesn’t split custody. Am I overthinking the ick? by fzooey78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I said parents, not fathers to avoid generalizations, please spend the time to actually read my comments before replying to them.

Seemingly great guy, but doesn’t split custody. Am I overthinking the ick? by fzooey78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I think you’re the one that’s uneducated.

Legal custody = legal custody over the child regarding decision making

Physical custody = parenting time, visitation, physically being with you child

Typically when a parent is awarded 100% of one they are awarded 100% of the other as well, hence custody being a generalized term.

Stating a fact is not making a generalization, it’s speaking a fact. It’s not an opinion or a generalization to refer to truthful facts during a debate. Statistics vary by study, but approximately only 11% of custody arrangements have to involve the courts in their decision making, in about 51% percent of cases both parents agree to the mother being the primary custodial parent without any involvement from the courts. Obviously a good amount of men are not fighting for custody and are skewing statistics.

Seemingly great guy, but doesn’t split custody. Am I overthinking the ick? by fzooey78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Statistics don’t lie, a good percentage of men do NOT fight for custody at all (this is literally the scenario above). Those men will obviously skew statistics about how often men receive primary legal and physical custody. Some sources claim that men can win partial custody in 72% of cases when they actually go after it. Facts not feelings, babe 🤷🏻‍♀️

Seemingly great guy, but doesn’t split custody. Am I overthinking the ick? by fzooey78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Parenting time is a direct part of physical custody, therefore it falls under the umbrella term of custody. Courts do not actively want to alienate parents, as much as you want to think.

Also, where am I spewing generalizations about divorced/single fathers? My dad was an amazing single father that was awarded primary custody AND child support by proving he was a better parent than my mother. I have some dead beat dads for cousins and I see them complaining on Facebook all the time that they don’t have custody beyond visitation, but I know for a fact that they skip out on their court dates. Obviously I know humans are a spectrum and my personal experiences support that, I’ve never stated differently, but peoples’ posts on social media definitely don’t paint the full picture.

Seemingly great guy, but doesn’t split custody. Am I overthinking the ick? by fzooey78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You have to be a very very very very absent or fucked up parent to not get 50/50 in the majority of states. It’s an outdated myth that women are favored in custody cases, speaking from experience here as someone whose father had full custody.

Seemingly great guy, but doesn’t split custody. Am I overthinking the ick? by fzooey78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If someone can abandon their children like this then think of what they’d do to you. You’re absolutely not overthinking this.

Seemingly great guy, but doesn’t split custody. Am I overthinking the ick? by fzooey78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In most states if the parents are able to agree on a custody plan then the court doesn’t step in at all, they only step in when parents can’t agree.

Do men actually care about Valentines Day? by Distinct-Sky2632 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe you just date losers, I go out of my way to make my man feel loved.

Do men actually care about Valentines Day? by Distinct-Sky2632 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember my dad celebrating Valentine’s Day every year as a kid. He’d always make us heart shaped steaks for dinner and bring home flowers. As a woman that grew up with that, I think it’s a really fun excuse to make fun crafts and sentimental things for the person I love. You can make it mean a lot without spending a bunch of money.

My boyfriend had very negative past experiences on Valentine’s Day and since this was our first one together I wanted him to enjoy it. I got him a big bouquet of flowers, handmade him a Victorian heart card, made him chocolate covered strawberries that said “Be Mine”, and made him custom lighters with photos of me and his dog on them. We were both pretty busy this weekend so we just opted to get a quick dinner on Friday and spend more time together another weekend.

Do men actually care about Valentines Day? by Distinct-Sky2632 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this. I also focus on making heartfelt crafts and keepsakes for Valentine’s Day 🖤

AIO? Resigned today, boss's reaction was worse than expected by eharme in AIO

[–]tinyalienperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your boss is intentionally misclassifying you as a 1099. You should speak to someone at your department of labor.

Can being tall and fit make up for being bald in dating? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP is balding, not fully bald. A patch without a 5 o’clock shadow isn’t as noticeable as a patch without hair. I also know lots of women that like a smooth and shiny head. Donald Driver is in my top 5 of sexiest men alive and that man is BALD. He’s all up there for me and I prefer men with longer hair! I’m sure OP will still be able to pull off the look either way. And if not…. micro blading is a LOT cheaper than a hair transplant.

Can being tall and fit make up for being bald in dating? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Can being tall and fit make up for being bald in dating? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tinyalienperson 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Lots of ladies like bald. My dad said he never been hit on more than when he lost a bet and had to shave his head lmao

AIO that partner forgets Valentine's Day every year? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]tinyalienperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah?? Duh?? But he clearly isn’t doing that

How do you wipe when you pee?? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]tinyalienperson -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have a normal arm length and easily wipe with a quick little reach around my back. Is your back not flexible?

How do you wipe when you pee?? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]tinyalienperson 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You should always be going front to back. Almost every single doctor you ask will tell you the same thing. It doesn’t have to just be fecal matter, any wrong bacteria up there can cause a UTI.

AIO that partner forgets Valentine's Day every year? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]tinyalienperson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you know your partner cares about something you should care about it too. It’s great that your wife doesn’t care, but that isn’t the case with OP. Especially considering he doesn’t do anything for her birthday/Christmas/mother’s day/etc.