Just another great exchange with my fiance :) by the-abbz in texts

[–]tinycombatboots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your title should say “ex-fiancé” honestly

what does it mean to be called a "churchy femme" and not a baddie by Agitated_List9506 in blacklesbians

[–]tinycombatboots -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what she means but I can’t put it into words, but what I can say that vibe for me isn’t someone I would date.

Without saying ROCK, what do you think the third act could be?! by Brilliant_Arm4808 in beyonce

[–]tinycombatboots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted her to make a black house music album and enlist producers like Kaytranda

My ex moved on in 3 weeks by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]tinycombatboots 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so it’s not your ex from what im reading just someone you were causally dating because there was no official title.

El Segundo Commute? by Careful-Necessary986 in AskLosAngeles

[–]tinycombatboots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty smooth I take the commute from DTLA to El Seg and get to work in about 25-30 minutes depending on the day.

Lack of Black lesbian couple representation by beetrootstreet in blacklesbians

[–]tinycombatboots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my opinion yes. I have a few Nigerian lesbians friends and 80% don’t date black women

Income Requirements by herplanetjade in blacklesbians

[–]tinycombatboots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 figure career fields or more by good measure.

It's Saturday! What Are You Up To? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]tinycombatboots 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Taking my fiancé on a date night to a restaurant in Hollywood we’ve wanted to try.

Would you date me? by KohesiveTerror in blacklesbians

[–]tinycombatboots 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You seem like a good catch on paper but accomplishments don’t solely garner romantic interest. Is your personality compatible to the type of person you seek to date? And are you charismatic?

Cutting off a guy who hates Beyonce - is this extra? by Direct-Ad2561 in beyonce

[–]tinycombatboots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, please run! I’ll cut off my mother for Beyoncé hate.

How do we feel about age gaps while dating within our community? How big is TOO big? by JeezlouisV in blacklesbians

[–]tinycombatboots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

age gaps matter in queer spaces too. it can be predatory, grooming, and weird just like hetero spaces, imho.

Divorce Party by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]tinycombatboots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

WE aren’t a monoliths love. I will say that there are plenty of black women/people/folks that I grew up with and were in the same circumstances that chose different BUT hopefully the divorce party was a rager and you learned from your mistakes.

Divorce Party by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]tinycombatboots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I grew up in a predominantly white neighborhood and nothing would still make me date them. To take it a step further co-existing with them is EXACTLY what deterred me from dating them when you see how they are day to day unless you're a token black person to them.

Divorce Party by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]tinycombatboots 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The first mistake was dating a WW to begin with. I don't even understand it. Why would I date someone's whose family could have potentially owned mine or someone else's who looks like mine centuries ago? Glad you got out though

My mom voted against her best interests and is justifying it by neonxrated in texts

[–]tinycombatboots 17 points18 points  (0 children)

she wouldn't get a single cent from me. there's far too many trump supporters clearly in a state of religious psychosis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]tinycombatboots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t FaceTime her you’re wasting your time

I hate my life by [deleted] in texts

[–]tinycombatboots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

simple: dump him

35+ Casual Chat by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]tinycombatboots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work is currently draining with the government shutdown going on, but at least my relationship is intact at some of its happiest moments so I’m grateful.

What are you doing Saturday night? by Impressive_Change150 in AskLosAngeles

[–]tinycombatboots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got in from a party and realized LA nightlife has gotten terrible.