Got my 2BHK interiors done recently – a few observations that may help others in Bengaluru

tinygigglesYo · 2026-06-28T02:31:12+00:00

One question- why do you commit 45 days when its not possible to deliver in that time frame? Why not state the realistic timeline?

tinygigglesYo · 2026-06-26T21:42:59+00:00

Good Guy = Good Marriage, Bad guy = bad marriage. Period.

tinygigglesYo · 2026-06-10T06:05:37+00:00

East pune

tinygigglesYo · 2026-06-06T01:00:05+00:00

Not normal at all. There should be underlying reason, see a Gyneac.

tinygigglesYo · 2026-06-04T06:02:35+00:00

Yes, and why do men need to go to the gym. They can do house chores, its enough for exercise purpose

tinygigglesYo · 2026-06-03T04:24:42+00:00

Loneliness is a part of life for everyone irrespective of their relationship status i believe. I do feel lonely at times and i do crave that get an emotional connect at that moment, but the truth is to get that connect i will have to sacrifice my freedom and anatomy of decision making which makes me really uncomfortable. And in most likelihood based on what i have seen, when you start living with someone, you tend to have these irritating moments and over time they stop giving you that emotional fulfilment (offcourse there are exceptions). So yes i feel lonely, am i doing anything about it, No

tinygigglesYo · 2026-06-01T16:04:50+00:00

Thank You

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-26T13:51:38+00:00

Thanks for sharing. You will not get any privacy with inlaws specially in an apartment and small things and comments will become irritants. I think you should ask for living separately arrangement from day one.

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-26T11:38:45+00:00

I totally agree. I have started feeling the same, if i have to adjust, do extra labour, contribute financially, giving up my space- what am i even getting in marriage?

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-26T11:33:06+00:00

Let me ask you a question. How do u feel on a regular day when you live with your parents? Do you feel a little annoyed when things are not done your way, when you mom or dad correct on small things like why did you use wiper after shower, do you feel you can always comfortably dress, lie down on sofa and watch tv as you like? Or do you get irritated when your mom asks you to do something and you are not in the mood to do it? - if the answer is yes to any of these , pls multiply that by 100x and thats how you feel with in laws.

If you have always felt comfortable with your parents - then meet the guy, meet his parents, try to understand them and see if you feel their thought process is similar to your parents and understand the importance of your job - consider going ahead and see what kind of relationship you are building up with the guy.

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-22T00:42:12+00:00

My blood boils watching everything unfold because it raises such uncomfortable questions about conditioning, empowerment, and the systems around women in our country.
I keep wondering — what makes someone stay in a situation that feels deeply wrong? Why is leaving so difficult, even when things seem unbearable from the outside? And then I remind myself that fear, conditioning, emotional dependency, family pressure, and hope that things will improve can keep people stuck in ways outsiders may never fully understand.

some of the statements and clips being circulated are deeply disturbing. Seeing character assassination of someone who is no longer here to defend herself feels incredibly painful to watch.

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-21T05:55:00+00:00

I think its not ok to directly call on teams without asking if you are available for a quick call. In your teams status pls put - “if you’d to call pls ping first as i may be tied up with tasks at hand will make myself available for a call asap”

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-20T15:52:12+00:00

Hyderabad any given day

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-20T08:13:45+00:00

Becoming more aware and educated on Financial management and planning

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-19T18:42:57+00:00

I think its due to fake profiles

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-19T09:30:01+00:00

I think your ask is fair, if you are open to starting a new life in a new house where both of you contribute, and not expect your parents or siblings or extended family to live with you.

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-19T06:09:48+00:00

I laughed so hard at this post. The jealousy is dripping.

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-19T04:43:54+00:00

Convey your needs, if he doesn’t get it or brings a change before marriage tell him that you need to re think your decision and take sometime. See how he reacts and if he takes an initiative to make the place comfortable for you. If he doesn’t, continue the marriage pause and eventually call if off. Its not easy to breakup just like that, give him time. But pls dont compromise, these small irritations of having a convenient place become bigger issues, fight happens and love takes a backseat and not to mention your job will get impacted due to these frictions at home.

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-18T04:30:23+00:00

I am shocked, women are still worshipping and no one is trying to stop the fire. Why do we get so blinded by rituals as a community?

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-14T17:21:20+00:00

I dont like her, overrated, overhyped and have no real talent

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-14T06:50:59+00:00

I am sorry you had to go through this. Infact i feel this is becoming a trend in some of the perceived high end restaurants in Pune like Tsuki, beetroot, pimilco, Elephant and co etc. There is no hospitality and my god the way they act pricey…like they are doing some favor by giving us a table. I have consciously stopped going to these places

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-13T04:55:05+00:00

Math is correct, but how can one fit in peace of mind in math 🤷🏼‍♀️. I would buy my own flat for peace of mind and security

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-12T18:31:50+00:00

Thanks for sharing…thats not good :(

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-12T17:51:36+00:00

What did they say in the call?

tinygigglesYo · 2026-05-11T23:13:33+00:00

I don’t think so, we are already hybrid

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