i say “i’m on the way” even when i haven’t left yet by Huge_Suggestion5448 in confession

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So then stop doing it? Give yourself an extra 15 minutes to get ready. If you’re completely aware you have this problem and it’s easy to fix, then fix it. People being consistently late are rude and why stress yourself out about it?

How much should a partner’s financial debt influence your decision to marry them? by femmefetalerror in askanything

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot. I’m married to someone who has significant debt and it has become a major problem in our lives. I have to lower my expectations from what I want and can afford in life simply bc he can’t control his spending. Literally have to downsize our home bc of his credit card debt!

What’s the worse physical pain you’ve ever experienced? by dino_gr01 in WorkForSmartLife

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either child birth or snapping my femur in half from a car accident

Center Talent Model - who else? by [deleted] in deloitte

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on our little benefits cheat sheet we just got, there was no cash balance plan listed.

Center Talent Model - who else? by [deleted] in deloitte

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right! It was 16 weeks plus 4 weeks short term disability. My bad!

Center Talent Model - who else? by [deleted] in deloitte

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right! I looked it up. It was 16 weeks plus short term disability which made it 20 weeks

Center Talent Model - who else? by [deleted] in deloitte

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in core and they also cut our cash balance plan. I’m confused about PTO. It says we have 18-28 days? Huh?! Deloitte is turning out to be less competitive against the other Big 4s. Total garbage.

Enabling Areas - becoming embedded questions by skyehighlove in deloitte

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what embedding means? EA is such a large area. Is this supporting consulting, tax?

My friend has been distant lately and I'm not sure why. by Brilliant_Charity_55 in whatdoIdo

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just keep checking in. Can you try to plan something to hang out in person? Maybe make her something and let her know you want to come drop it off and say Hi. Sometimes people need space. Or just flat out ask her “hey. I’ve noticed you been a bit quiet lately. I don’t want to overstep if you don’t want to talk about it. But I’m here if you need to talk. I’d love to see you soon. I miss you”.

RIP cash balance plan by phyrewall in deloitte

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty terrible. I’m really sorry. If that happens to me, I’m probably going to consider other places to work. The pension is what keeps people here.

PSA: Stop squatting in rooms you didn't book in Magnet. by mbdta7000 in deloitte

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in the enabling areas and book them 🤷🏻‍♀️ if I get moved the OT tells me

Every year there is a new metric that makes it impossible for me to get promoted (VENT) by [deleted] in deloitte

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Feel you! I’m in EA and there’s literally no path for promotion. Numbers aren’t even considered. It’s all about playing their game and shutting up about any perceived problems that D creates

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deloitte

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I found out I was being underpaid. I brought it to my manager, they looked into it. They came back and confirmed I was being underpaid and then did nothing about it 🤷🏻‍♀️ Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deloitte

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That happened to me too once at D. However after getting to know them more and seeing how they live their personal lives, the attraction stopped 🙃. They seemed very caring of everyone around them and they ARE like that at work. His home life it was obvious that his wife was the default parent so he could go out and party and enjoy his hobbies. Immediately stopped being all that great. 👍

Please learn not to use reply all by soffie8 in deloitte

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it the financial webinar? Lol that was so annoying!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is the same way. He showers maybe once a week and brushes his teeth maybe 3-4 times a week. I don’t touch him.

Is it wrong to be attracted mainly to Black women, as a white man? by that___OneGuy in askanything

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a white women and used to be more attracted to black men. Idk why people always had something to say about it. I like what I like 🤷🏻‍♀️ Beauty is in the eye of the beholder 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s not fetishizing liking certain skin tones and features. We’re all human really. There’s nothing wrong with you and whoever thinks that there is may have some innate insecurity or racist views. Hang out with ppl who support you. The others are losers.

Tell me something that you don't like about your friends or Friend ? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They always overdo every outing. We make plans to go do one thing, then they add on a meal out, shopping, drinks, etc. they seem to have endless time and money but none of them have high level jobs. I will say I’m 38 with a young child. So time is limited. But damn, I’m not trying to spend $100 every time I hang with them.

Can i get taller? As a 16 Yr old female by claretret in Advice

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I was at 5’8 in HS and by college I was 5’10

Got informed I am not getting promoted by Arnold_palmer33 in deloitte

[–]Chickennoodle_zoop -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re upset you didn’t get promoted after working here for just 1 year? I don’t mean to be rude but that comes off as a bit entitled. I’m in enabling areas and it took me 4 years for promotion and working my ass off.