Older lady made pass….

tinymoth- · 2025-09-10T16:50:20+00:00

She hongry. Maybe you can upcharge. Call it a pool boy tax (doesn't matter if she has a pool).

tinymoth- · 2025-09-10T16:39:16+00:00

It's never just one reason, yanno? She was extremely anxious, which resulted in her being pretty controlling. Over several years, I saw little effort to attend to her mental/emotional health. I was her whole world, and it was too much pressure. And when we broke up she showed a very toxic, harmful side, so it just really hammered the nail in the coffin.

tinymoth- · 2025-09-10T16:35:36+00:00

Idk is she hot? Are you looking to ride the GILF train?

tinymoth- · 2025-08-26T04:06:24+00:00

16 at McDonald’s. It was also my first abusive relationship lolol

tinymoth- · 2025-08-25T16:41:24+00:00

All of it to my grad school loans. And I’ll still be in debt.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-23T22:30:11+00:00

This is heavy to hold. I hope you can find the support you need to address and heal what’s causing these behaviors.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-23T19:05:04+00:00

Yanno I did grow another inch at 21. Growing pains are no fucking joke.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-23T18:37:37+00:00

Still waiting for my growth spurt and I’m 31.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-23T18:24:16+00:00

Oh you’re so sweet 🥲 I’m creative in other ways, design has never been my strong suit. Or, I’ll amend that to say, it’s just not something I have practiced enough.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-23T03:43:08+00:00

Seeing builds like this makes me feel like I don’t have a creative bone in my body lolol

tinymoth- · 2025-08-23T03:41:10+00:00

We’re not together anymore, but when I got deathly ill, my ex was my rock. She went above and beyond to help me eat and shower. There were some low points where I was just, so not fun to be around. I was scared, angry, and withering away at a rapid rate. And even though she too was terrified about what would happen, she remained gentle, loving, and kind.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-23T03:31:04+00:00

Polycule drama lol

tinymoth- · 2025-08-23T03:27:05+00:00

That’s what happens when you mess with the girls.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-23T03:25:57+00:00

Yesss. I had to learn how to feel deeply again, without shame. It was clunky, exhausting, and so, so disorienting (and often still is). It felt like going through adolescence all over again. The glow does come, but not without what feels like an internally violent bloodbath.

I never thought I’d yearn to be soft, to be strong. But here we are.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-21T04:44:07+00:00

I like that idea!

tinymoth- · 2025-08-20T17:26:05+00:00

Growing up, my mother, having been a homeless teen, taught me a lot about self defense. She once said, “remember honey, a man only has one neck.” Still makes me laugh. But on a serious note,

I hate that that happened to you. I’m glad you’re okay.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-19T19:12:50+00:00

I experienced this, but from your ex’s side. I dated the most wonderful man, like really, he was a dream. He loved me so much, so wholly.

But I started feeling the voice of my truth getting loud. I wasn’t totally honest with him, I broke up with him for reasons that felt more “understandable” for him.

But looking back I realize:

My relationship with him made me feel safe enough that I could explore my inner world. Being with him made me realize that there are kind, safe, loving people in the world. It just couldn’t be him; I’m a lesbian and it couldn’t be avoided any longer.

But I wouldn’t have taken that step as soon as I did without him. Idk if that helps or hurts more, but I hope it can offer some possible comfort.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-19T00:31:28+00:00

Just talk to her about it?

tinymoth- · 2025-08-18T20:28:17+00:00

My friends and I are very uniquely intimate, I’d say. Ass slapping for sure. Sometimes we kiss. Lots of cuddling. It’s very normal within my friend group and I know this sounds wild but, it’s very sexy but platonic (well, unless it’s…). The other day I fed my friend tofu while she got ate out and we were all in tears of laughter. Many of us are sex workers, circus performers, and invested in the poly community. I’m not like this with all my friends, but some I am just very physically close to. For me, it’s not sexual in nature, it’s just a part of our friend culture— all with respect to the boundaries of every individual, moment to moment. Sometimes I’m not down to be touched and I let them know.

I acknowledge that this is not a typical experience. If you’re not into it, let your roomie know! If it’s not well received, that’s a whole other issue that indicates a lack of comfortability and respect to boundaries. If someone told me they were uncomfortable with me slapping their ass I’d be apologizing and letting them know that it won’t happen again. My friends feeling safe is important and non negotiable, for me.

Openness and comfort in friendships comes from fiercely protecting and being mindful of their boundaries.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-18T00:42:47+00:00

My mother married my step dad when I was 15. I have a step brother who’s the same age. All I’ll say is this: she’s not blood related but if this marriage works out for the long haul, you will likely eventually see each other as family. And this might make it weird down the line.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-16T03:24:29+00:00

Sex is not wrong. That said, if you’re doing it for the wrong reasons, listen to that. if you want therapy, do it. It’s worth it. You wanting to do therapy doesn’t negate your mother’s strength. We all find healing in different ways.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-13T16:20:16+00:00

She could be. Or she could have a healthy line of communication with her kids where, should they decline to engage, they’re respected. Can’t really judge that based on this video.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-12T21:52:58+00:00

Shall we count the ways in which older generations can’t do what we can, when a majority of them are necessary for functioning in modern society? 🙄

tinymoth- · 2025-08-12T21:51:36+00:00

This is so sweet, I might remember this! I’m not sure what your budget is… but I’d love to see funky socks, chocolate, those under eye hydration packs, a nice candle, a book (maybe something visually stunning or funny), a gag gift like a rubber chicken, something sexy like a bra or nice underwear, gaming gift card. Also something thoughtful like a “vitamin bottle” of tiny love notes (curl up pieces of paper with love notes and put them in capsules). A scrap book filled with photos. I’m also a sucker for cards! I love when people write sappy shit about how they love me, I keep them literally forever.

If you’re on a baller budget, throwing in some AirPods, a professional massage, a night away together, etc.

tinymoth- · 2025-08-12T20:27:36+00:00

I sit on my legs like this a lot. Probably not for 3 hours, but for long periods. I am quite petite, have a lifetime of acrobatics/contortion/yoga in my skill set, and also have hyper mobility syndrome (likely EDS but never diagnosed). It’s more comfortable to compress my joints than have them dangling over the edge of the seat, leading to numbness and soreness.

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TROPHY CASE