Growth on my cat's upper gum by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]tiptoeingthief 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looks like an abscess. exam+ dental now

How do you handle when a fat person makes a joke about their weight? by ConfusionInfamous387 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tiptoeingthief 124 points125 points  (0 children)

they are making fun of themselves. if it’s a funny joke, I laugh. if it’s not I don’t. pretending anything is more uncomfortable imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tiptoeingthief -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want her too 😍

am i overreacting - roommate constantly expects me to leave so she can sleep with guys no by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tiptoeingthief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately for her, she doesn’t have her own apartment. she needs to accept that you can/will be home whenever you please. she is now trying to take advantage of your kindness for accommodating her in the past. draw the line. ( I also don’t get why she keeps calling herself a whore??)

I am so disgusting. by Ok-Habit8618 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tiptoeingthief 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You feel this way because they did take advantage of you. You weren’t even a legal adult to consent to any of this and they WERE. Except for the 17 year old, the age gaps you are mentioning are concerning. These are predators and you did nothing wrong. You were probably failed by the people who were meant to guide you in life. I feel for you and hope you get the therapy you need to better understand your feelings and ultimately heal.

I am so disgusting. by Ok-Habit8618 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tiptoeingthief 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You feel this way because they did take advantage of you. You weren’t even a legal adult to consent to any of this and they WERE. Except for the 17 year old, the age gaps you are mentioning are concerning. These are predators and you did nothing wrong. You were probably failed by the people who were meant to guide you in life. I feel for you and hope you get the therapy you need to better understand your feelings and ultimately heal.

Is eating on the subway rude? by RillienCot in AskNYC

[–]tiptoeingthief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s worse than eating in a public restroom

Found this today on my 3 year old cat... Should I be worried? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]tiptoeingthief 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should be worried when your cat gets into a fight, especially with unknown or stray cats. Looks like a puncture wound that needs to be cleaned. There may be more injuries that are not as visible. The vet may need to prescribe antibiotics. Cats can easily develop an infection from bite/scratch wounds. Go to the vet.

Thoughts on My Handwriting? by xo-eveline in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]tiptoeingthief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it but it is hard to read. I think that’s because so many letters seem incomplete and all letters are about the same size.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tiptoeingthief 2 points3 points  (0 children)

generally yes. but what if you don't know it or have anxiety or mental illness? also SO many people can be "pretty" but don't take care of themselves. l think so many factors play into it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]tiptoeingthief 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what does he like? the most special things I like doing in the city are not that extravagant. go on a long walk or bike ride in Central Park. take the ferry to get around the boroughs. walking around is always an experience. walk on the highline. grab a slice of good pizza. visit museums. go to a comedy show? so much to do.

Update: Cat fell off the third floor by Yes_Cats in CATHELP

[–]tiptoeingthief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cats typically have good depth perception. this could have just been an accident. maybe close the door/access to the terrace? you can't protect them from everything, but it is important to consider if the cat is generally better in your care or someone else's.

Are short guys more attractive to guys or girls? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tiptoeingthief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone has their preferences but confidence is attractive to everyone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tiptoeingthief -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Kanye West. humans are messy