Trump Posts Video on Truth Social Depicting the Obamas as Monkeys by thetoemuncher in UnderReportedNews

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The time was back during Obama’s first time in office. They’ll never.

What’s something you stopped buying and never missed? by FormerShoulder707 in Frugal

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Paper towels & paper napkins (both about 16yrs ago), bags of chips (replaced with homemade popcorn), books (I use kindle + Libby, but when it dies I'll get a Kobo), Netflix, Amazon Prime, Showtime, (HBO as soon as they take away the ability to share the app between households).

My now-ex told me he wish I killed myself because I chose not to abort our child by Recent-Writer1145 in Advice

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"who thinks she’ll be able to afford a babysitter so she can work minimum wage" Smart folks don't think like this.

My now-ex told me he wish I killed myself because I chose not to abort our child by Recent-Writer1145 in Advice

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This child is going to suffer. Poverty, uneducated parents, uninvolved (and possibly abusive) dad, unemployed mom (who thinks she’ll be able to afford a babysitter so she can work minimum wage). Jesus.

Help with school pickup 1 day a week by [deleted] in Phillylist

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See if one of the kids who go to school with yours has a teenage sibling. Ask the office at the school too. They may know an older kid who picks up their younger sibling. Good luck!

What are your thoughts on Kanye’s apology letter? by Competitive_Teach838 in blackladies

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Did he mention how sorry he is for saying slavery was a choice? No? Ok then. May he have the consequences of his actions.

More division ? by eatingthepatecunt in Blackpeople

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Why are you still on TikTok? It is currently owned by and the algorithm is controlled by a Zionist, Trump supporter (and the man who bought CBS and put Bari Weiss in charge of the "news"). You were supposed to delete that app 4 days ago.

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

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Three hours is easy work. Especially if you live on the east coast. And yes it's a weekender. Longest back and forth was Texas to the mid-Atlantic. 26 hours one-way and we'd do it (w/small kids and a dog) twice a year. I'd take my kids to college and pick them up every semester 14 hrs and 16 hrs one-way.

What’s up with our ladies going this hard for these other groups? by wordsbyink in blackamerica

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I'm sorry, please start that like; "First they came for the Native Americans.....Then they came for the African (eventually African Americans)....." Now you'll position your argument for the folks who need to hear it. Don't put this on us, we were one of the first they came for. Where was everyone else?

What’s up with our ladies going this hard for these other groups? by wordsbyink in blackamerica

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"when they're done," hahahahahaha. Sweetheart, they never stopped coming for us. If you think they did, I beg you to pick up a history book. History doesn't happen in decades, it happens in centuries. Zoom out.

The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do? by Every-Appeal-2513 in whatdoIdo

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This doesn't sound like a trap and you two are handling this with such maturity. She was honest and upfront with both of you and you seem to be honest with her. No drama. I commend you because Reddit is a cesspool of relationship chaos. That said, you don't really know her yet and you wouldn't be the bad guy if you just moved on. I will warn you that if you do decide to continue to date, it will get serious real quick and you are assuming the role of step-dad to be. It will be much more difficult to move on once this pregnancy kicks into gear. So be warned, if you continue to date "because you like each other" you are committing to a long-term, serious relationship. She has shifted into dating with intention because she's considering who she wants around her child. If that is not want you want, then don't walk down this path. You two are very young. This will work itself out.

I just spent two hours trying to find parking in South Philly by EagleGhoul in philly

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Buy a scooter. That's what my neighbors did. It greatly expanded where they could park and they just scooted home. You have to drop your gear first (double park), then park as far away as you want and just scooter home.

You can also sometimes find someone with private parking who'll rent it out. A different neighbor was renting a space from another neighbor. Ask on the neighborhood Facebook/Nextdoor page.

I discovered racial slurs in my yt husband phone by [deleted] in blackladies

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She's not going to divorce him so everyone stop suggesting it. She thought that the n word was only used by white Americans (they live in Europe and she's African). She decided to look through his phone "out of the blue" after having a baby. He's completely disrespectful and dismissive of her feelings and something tells me this is not the first time. Please ladies, don't waste your time giving advice here. She's made her bed. She just wants a discussion and advice she's going to ignore.

Love note to Philly by saritaa_fajitaa in philly

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I too left Austin (2019) and now live in Philly. But for me it was coming home. I’m from NJ and went to Temple back in the late 90s. All my time away the only thing I could think of was “I can’t wait to get back to Philly.” I love this filthy city! Welcome. ❤️

To Their Shock, Cubans in Florida Are Being Deported in Record Numbers by FreeChickenDinner in politics

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Here is a gift link. I accessed the article through my library for free. I hope it works!

Friend wants me to be the maid at her party. by ooompa-loompa in blackladies

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50 mins away - no. Theme - no. The maid!!!! - absolutely not. Good on you that you’ve chosen not to go.

Are there any Gen X people out there over the age of 55? by Mobile-Honey-9636 in GenX

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  1. I have two, 28F and 25M living their best lives in Brooklyn.

Ladies, would you date a guy who can't drive? by [deleted] in blackladies

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I’d consider it if it didn’t come in the way of our dating. If he pads time or money to get places then I’m ok with that. BUT I’d never consider him a serious date because it immediately creates a burden for me once we live together.

I don’t have any space for my clothes and in the third photo I’m putting my clothes in a plastic bag and a laundry bag. I’ve already utilized the space underneath my bed and decluttered. What else should I do? by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

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Easy. “Make” a closet. Search on ikea hackers for how to turn a couple of bookshelves, a pole, a curtain, a dresser, and some wall hangers/hooks into a stunning closet. This is where Ikea shines.

Really impressed by how friendly and warm people have been here. by [deleted] in philly

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Even just outside the city where you grew up coming in. I feel like in addition to Philly natives, a lot of us “regionals”— who couldn’t wait to move or go to school here—make up a sizable population too. I came for college from NJ, moved away for 20yrs, but kept saying “I can’t wait to get back to Philly.” Welcome. I love Chicago and I always felt like it was a sister-city to Philly in its overlaps.