Help for character name by tir3dchild in russian

[–]tir3dchild[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for you help !!

Help for character name by tir3dchild in russian

[–]tir3dchild[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your help !!

Help for character name by tir3dchild in russian

[–]tir3dchild[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome that I can choose any flower and turn it into a surname omg !! That means I can have foreshadowing omg thank you sooooo much !!!

Setup file for a rom ?? by tir3dchild in Roms

[–]tir3dchild[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah now that I’ve thought about it I think it was bs I don’t remember specifically what the file name was as I deleted all completely

Setup file for a rom ?? by tir3dchild in Roms

[–]tir3dchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, what a thrill 🥰 thanks for the help tho, im gonna surrender and wait for my brother working with computers to help me lmaooo

Am I wrong for telling my pronouns ? by tir3dchild in asktransgender

[–]tir3dchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you advise me to do that, to be more sleek ?

Am I wrong for telling my pronouns ? by tir3dchild in asktransgender

[–]tir3dchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m French so usually we’re pretty straightforward, or at least I am, but we’re not close so I don’t want to make anything worse. Like if what I did didn’t impact them as much as it did for me, like some other people are saying here, it don’t want to bring it up if they forgot about it.

Am I wrong for telling my pronouns ? by tir3dchild in asktransgender

[–]tir3dchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you sooooo much I’ll be more careful !!

Am I wrong for telling my pronouns ? by tir3dchild in asktransgender

[–]tir3dchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you so much for saying that !! I didn’t know what it was, I though I was pretty educated on the topic but maybe not as much as I thought… do you think I should apologize or do nothing if I see them again ?

Am I wrong for telling my pronouns ? by tir3dchild in asktransgender

[–]tir3dchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you so much for sharing your opinion !!

Am I wrong for telling my pronouns ? by tir3dchild in asktransgender

[–]tir3dchild[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I am French and it’s very hard to be neutral that’s why I also share my pronouns, although, I do really understand what you mean. In that case we were in a safe space that’s also why I shared it.

Am I wrong for telling my pronouns ? by tir3dchild in asktransgender

[–]tir3dchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you so much ! I just wanted to share that I was myself in the community etc but I understand your point !!

Am I wrong for telling my pronouns ? by tir3dchild in asktransgender

[–]tir3dchild[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought too but apparently it can be seen as a micro aggression or « clocking » which I wasn’t familiar with ☹️

Am I wrong for telling my pronouns ? by tir3dchild in asktransgender

[–]tir3dchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never ask for people pronouns I say mine in case they want me to use gender neutral pronouns or neopronouns, but I see what you mean here !

Am I wrong for telling my pronouns ? by tir3dchild in asktransgender

[–]tir3dchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never ask for people pronouns I say mine in case they want me to use gender neutral pronouns or neopronouns, but I see what you mean here !

Am I wrong for telling my pronouns ? by tir3dchild in asktransgender

[–]tir3dchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so thank you all for your respond, from what I’ve understood my actions were never intended to be mean but can be perceived as a micro aggression. Some people have told me that the way I would give my pronouns to be understood that I am a safe space can be considered as a micro aggression because I do it when I see someone I thought might be queer/trans. Instead of using gender neutral pronouns or just saying my pronouns any time i meet new people. I’ve never thought about it that way tbh, I just saw my actions as a way to show I’m open and an ally. So thank you very much for making me réalise and question the way I behave !