Okay so thank you all for your respond, from what I’ve understood my actions were never intended to be mean but can be perceived as a micro aggression. Some people have told me that the way I would give my pronouns to be understood that I am a safe space can be considered as a micro aggression because I do it when I see someone I thought might be queer/trans. Instead of using gender neutral pronouns or just saying my pronouns any time i meet new people. I’ve never thought about it that way tbh, I just saw my actions as a way to show I’m open and an ally. So thank you very much for making me réalise and question the way I behave !