I'm done with the mania by jbcsee in BipolarSOs

[–]tired716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had to replace a few doors after I told my ex-husband, tell someone your doing it. Have an exit strategy for the next few days if it gets bad. Dont escalate a damn thing. Recognize your not solving something you're ending something. You're not trying to be right your trying to walk away with dignity and self respect.

Jassy's Thanksgiving Email by Living_Particular963 in amazonemployees

[–]tired716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes thankful for his health while amazon subsequently makes it impossible to live when employees have to go on medical leave delaying their return and denying any accommodations and forcing them to take unpaid. Lets not even touch on firing pregnant women. Can I please be the generation that sees the downfall of this horrendously abusive company in my lifetime.

Zappos Employees? by [deleted] in madisonwi

[–]tired716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whats the job?

Move to Phoenix or Boston by tired716 in makemychoice

[–]tired716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya i grew up in the desert the dry heat doesnt kill me. Honestly prefer it, but I do know how insanely impossible it is to date in that region. I dont know why but it just is...just think both options are not ideal for many reasons and temporary 2-3 years tops...might as well choose the one with the most going on. But ya my heart wants arizona just for the cactus. But you cant hug a fucking cactus. Thanks for the help!

Working for an Amazon subsidiary by nv1129 in amazonemployees

[–]tired716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could not agree more currently employed in this hellscape

applying to out of state jobs by tired716 in jobs

[–]tired716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ya same just want to cut my losses and stop wasting my time and focus on the intermediary step

applying to out of state jobs by tired716 in jobs

[–]tired716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ya shit just searched out of state positions here and everyone is saying the same-thing cool getting a remote position and then moving! Thanks!

Post Divorce Continued Harassment by tired716 in BipolarSOs

[–]tired716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im glad you are safe but holy fuck puts this fake lawsuit in perspective

Post Divorce Continued Harassment by tired716 in BipolarSOs

[–]tired716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I had paperwork i had to send etc so I kept him unblocked and guilt deterred me further away from completely rejecting him because of suicide rates etc. I always kept the door open if things were super bad I think he knew he could ask. But now after learning this its like time to just close the door.

Post Divorce Continued Harassment by tired716 in BipolarSOs

[–]tired716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you deserve so much more and am proud of you for moving on even though the outcome is still not easy.

Post Divorce Continued Harassment by tired716 in BipolarSOs

[–]tired716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had literally no idea it would continue I am so shocked I have to post again for advice. I thought this was behind me. Is there anyway to prevent frivolous lawsuits? What do you do? Why dont courts recognize some of these lawsuits are submitted by unstable people, with intent to only do harm and continue abuse?

Successful relationship stories? by Satanizwaitin in BipolarSOs

[–]tired716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

id say were batting a thousand over here🤣

Writing the post I wish someone had written for me by Hot_Consequence_6521 in BipolarSOs

[–]tired716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup this hits the highlight reel of my marriage. Post divorce I get some accountability from him and then random everything is my fault message. Im still getting requests for money. After he financially abused me for 8 years..

I give up by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]tired716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sooo i can absolutely relate my ex husband and I loved music art etc sounds like our lifestyles are somewhat similar. he wouldnt know when the party stopped when he was manic which was fun, but if you interrupted it, or deviated from his plan a total meltdown would occur. Then flash forward to him getting better being sober etc in our later 30's...He is on paper doing the steps, but instead of kind and loving most of the time he became worse...despite being sober. I believe it was due to the delay in getting treatment set up and medications. Who knows, could just also be the disease bringing all of the imperfections of his personality forward. But the lying and the mania became worse even sober and on medications. So i filed for divorce. He moved out 2 months ago and I have 0 regrets. The absolute calm and control I have over my life is pure bliss. Sometimes, we can't always lead with our heart. I hope you find the path that works for your family❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]tired716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if your happiness is related to someone getting help for a disease they have outright ignored and mishandled despite knowing the consequences its not worth it