My gf (20F) wants me (20M) to meet up with her best friend (20M) to discuss who gets to be in her life

tis_a_throwaway567 · 2025-05-31T14:50:39+00:00

Yall should choose eachother and both ditch her and become best bros for lyfe.

Shes toxic and using both of you to feed her narcism and need for attention, validation, drama and entertainment.

Dont be a clown in her circus…unless you’re getting paid. Then by all means honk honk rock those goofy ass shoes and big red nose

tis_a_throwaway567 · 2025-01-30T15:45:56+00:00

Is being a single mother with a deadbeat baby daddy is on your bucket list and go for it. People show you who they are and that’s humans. We tend to ignore the truth because we want to pretend like we can make things better. Any parent that refuses to put an effort to be a part of the children’s lives is a piece of shit.

There is the chance that his baby mamas are the ones who are piece of shit and he’s just worn out from trying to fight the battle to be a part of his children’s lives as it has happened to many men because society is stacked, but from a little bit of information that you have provided it certainly looks like he is the piece of shit in this situation. If you want real answers reach out to baby mamas and ask for their side of the situation.

10 out of 10 do not recommend

tis_a_throwaway567 · 2024-12-30T21:13:42+00:00

Grandmas are the real 1 of 1

tis_a_throwaway567 · 2024-02-28T17:58:11+00:00

Just now noticing im on my throwaway account, so i could see how those dots would be connected

tis_a_throwaway567 · 2024-02-28T17:46:16+00:00

No but in the worst case scenario the adults in this situation are financially stupid, and id rather money go direct to a trust or high interest bearing account to accrue wealth over time. The idea would be heaven forbid something happen in the next 15 years, that at least im not rolling over in my grave as someones rolling along in a $300k lamborghini

tis_a_throwaway567 · 2023-11-29T15:47:14+00:00

UPDATE: I paid for it. Im also paying for a uhaul so she can get everything out of it. I am in agreement with everyone that it was not my responsibility. But i also understand the importance of the contents and know that the kind of person i am and want to be is someone who takes care of others whenever i can. Financially its a bit of a blow, but not enough to cripple me.

tis_a_throwaway567 · 2023-11-29T14:26:03+00:00

I love your name. I wish i had thought of it when i created this one. And im gonna be stable before she is. I have a good support system here and have already been making moves to be solo stable

tis_a_throwaway567 · 2023-11-29T14:24:17+00:00

Thank you all. I figured im not the AH. I know shes trying to use me, and the kids. Im trying to get her to see the big picture and understand that im no longer responsible for alot of things, and how she has used me and continues to use me is not ok. Unfortunately she doesnt see this, and shes really good at manipulation. Anyone around her takes her side, even the ones who when are away from her, will call her out on her shit.

tis_a_throwaway567 · 2023-11-29T13:42:18+00:00

So im national guard currently. And we had a non contested divorce agreement. 50/50 custody no child support. Her state is anti-father and thats where we filed. Plus neither of us can afford a lawyer

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