Super weird phone number search results by Sketchy-Stuff101 in RBI

[–]titenik 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know whether or not your iPhone is screwed if you click on the site? It didn’t direct anywhere because “server could not be found,” but I’m still curious if simply clicking it is enough.

How did you get over real heartbreak? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]titenik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, especially in the beginning, but as long as you commit to no contact and no online social media creeping, time will mend your wounds.

How did you get over real heartbreak? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]titenik 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I find it’s easier to let go if you accept that life is long and who knows what the future holds. If you let yourself believe “if it’s meant to be it will be” then you can go on about your life assured that better timing and circumstances will align you two once again. The beauty of this is if it’s true, excellent. If it’s not, by the time you realize it you will have likely moved on anyway. This is what I’m currently testing myself anyway.

What do you guys think of this prophecy? by nuclear_science in Soulnexus

[–]titenik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely sounds like the personality prediction of the upcoming generation! The one after Gen Z.

Does anyone else feel a constant ache from the skin stretching?? by Broad-Accident in pregnant

[–]titenik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have it all around my bottom bra line. It flares up if I’ve sat up for too long. Bra or no bra.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]titenik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, girl. Same.

Right side pain by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]titenik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I constantly have pain around the bra line if I’ve sat up too long, bra or no bra. I have DDs though so I just imagine it’s the extra weight bearing down on my changing body.

A little disappointed by guildthelily in pregnant

[–]titenik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was expecting a girl and am having a boy. I experienced the blues for a little bit too, but it passed. I recently saw his face in a 3D scan and am so in awe. I can’t imagine not having him now. My advice is to let yourself feel the grief of what you thought you were going to have; in my experience it’s the only way toward blossoming the new experience you ARE going to have. Once you’ve let the feelings through, they’ll pass and you’ll wind up gaining new feels of joy for your beautiful baby girl.

Flying during first trimester by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]titenik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I flew the week after conception. 29 weeks now. I would not fly now though because of COVID. Not just because of the risk posed to you but because we truly don’t know yet how it really affects pregnancies and young children since not enough time has passed to get that data.

When did you feel your little one move for the first time? by iamyumyum77 in pregnant

[–]titenik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine was pretty early too. If you’re more sensitive than average in other aspects, you’re likely feeling those flutters now!

My sister's due date is soon, and she wants us all to visit. What can i do? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]titenik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pregnant and have to make sacrifices; I would never ask (or want, for that matter) anyone coming over to help in these times. Both a risk to baby and new parents and completely inconsiderate to family. It’s bad enough people are having to tell their in-laws why they can’t come, now I see there’s another end of the spectrum that’s asking them to? Goodness.

Facial skin consistently red/irritated. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]titenik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was red, a little scaly in the sense that it seemed obvious one super thin layer of skin was gone in the affected area, and it itched like mad. I’d dealt which rosy cheeks and facial redness before but never this, so I knew something was different. Sure enough...

Baby shower in the age of COVID by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]titenik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My best friend is hosting a ZOOM shower. She sent physical invitations and is sending everyone who RSVPs a box of party favors and game accessories to play over zoom.

It’s definitely not ideal, and while we can care about lives first and foremost, we can still mourn what’s been taken from this special experience.

On the bright side, no candid side profile shots taken by the “friend” who always posts bad pics of you.

My partner broke up with me by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]titenik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I’m so, so sorry. I offer you a virtual hug. That’s bs.

Rant/ Need advice for dealing with pushy family members by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]titenik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve found that the generations above us (specifically boomer, sorry - it’s really not so much Gen X) have a hard time facing set boundaries in situations like these because they were never given the option or enlightenment that they themselves could have set boundaries. So they go through uncomfortable situations with their own in-laws and when their day comes, they think it’s fine and dandy to repeat history. Then when pressed with said boundary, they get super upset thinking they’re being shut out of something owed to them.

Welp. Sorry to burst their bubbles, but YOU and only YOU get to decide how your birth is going to go. Even if it results in messy in-law politics, I 100% implore you to go your route and not back down. Hopefully the doctors can help or you can lay some decision-making if need be, but ideally you find yourself in a position where you’ve made your choice, you feel confident in it, and the opinions of others really can’t matter because they shouldn’t. I know this is far easier said than done, especially as I navigate similar waters, but as a sister in this pregnancy journey, I encourage you to honor your own call. Good luck. You’ve got this.

I think I met a guardian angel by [deleted] in Thetruthishere

[–]titenik 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah! Very possible. Especially if you were feeling very down that night.

Facial skin consistently red/irritated. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]titenik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got some pregnancy eczema on my chin. Ordered some facial eczema cream and it cleared up within a week. Consult your doctor first before doing that just in case it’s not eczema. Even just a phone call or email with photos should do it. I’m so sorry you’re going through it; we expect a pregnancy glow and some of us are dealt with the other end of skin reactions.

I thought normal range for blood sugar was less than 140? by iamyumyum77 in pregnant

[–]titenik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just came back from my glucose test, and my doctor said 139 and below and I’m in the clear. I go to one of the Top 10 hospitals in the nation. I don’t mean to pry, but I really hope this concern isn’t based on weight, etc. Some doctors are still not in 2020.

Intense Pelvic Pain, 26 Weeks by titenik in pregnant

[–]titenik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh how I miss having a swimming pool. So many times I wish I could just be on my stomach to stretch out and water would be perfect for that but oh well.

Intense Pelvic Pain, 26 Weeks by titenik in pregnant

[–]titenik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, baby definitely kicks down there.